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Hi I lost 120 pounds on weight watchers and gained every pound back. It took me a year to lose it and a year to gain it all back. I got tired of measuring and counting points for my food. It became stressful especially when I got into a relationship. My family got so tired of hearing me say oh my God I ate to much now I have to work out for two hours. My only fear is that I don't want history to repeat itself once I have the WS surgery. I have one more weight in next month before my Doctor submit my paper work to my insurance company. Also I know WS have a plan as well but it don't seem to be stressful and my boyfriend is supporting me even though he don't agree

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You're not alone - the vast majority of people who lose weight with diets end up gaining it all back. Our bodies have ways of making us fail - we get hungrier after dieting for a while, and our metabolisms slow down.

Statistically, your chances of long-term success are much better with bariatric surgery. It's true that not everyone succeeds, but I think the fact that you've been so successful with dieting in the past will work in your favor. You've proven that you can make changes to your diet and stick with them for a good while. The surgery will help curb your hunger, at least for a while, and you'll make the changes to your diet that you'll stick with long-term. As long as you make good choices and stay on track you and the benefits of the surgery should help you find success.

I wish you the best!

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Wow - amazing transformation! You can do it again!

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I had my surgery December 29. Before I had the surgery I tried everything, and was quite successful on things from Jenny Craig to Slim Fast. The problem was, like you, I gained it all back. That's why I decided to do the weight loss surgery. This is amazing I get full very quickly and as soon as I'm full my desire to eat goes away. This is much different than a diet and I'm sure we'll both be very successful!!!!

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My before and after pictures but at this present time I look like my before picture attachicon.gif ImageUploadedByBariatricPal1421709441.496595.jpgattachicon.gif ImageUploadedByBariatricPal1421709464.230438.jpg

Hang in there and have faith. You can do this again!. [emoji3]

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Look at you...gorgeous! What is your boyfriend's perspective on weight loss surgery? I'm just curious because my husband is completely against it. Of course I'm still going to do it though.

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I had lost 44 pounds on Atkins diet in 1 year, and it took me like 6 months to gain it all back....

I want my gastric sleeve to just kill the relapse factor! Planning to get the sleeve done in feb, I want that weight to never ever come back. But I still have pregnancy left, I m 29 i will get pregnant in the coming years... Will that be my relapse period? I don't know.

I have around 100 pounds to be lost????????????

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My boyfriend feel that I don't need the surgery just lose it on my own but still supportive if that's want I want his favorite words. I was 90 pounds smaller when I met him

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For me being sleeved has saved my life . I was headed down towards an early death. Yep I had lost weight on diets and gain it back plus. Being sleeved is giving me a chance to take control of my eating habits. This takes work but it is worth the effort. I am not at goal but I am keeping it moving.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

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