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Alexandra....Please do not be so down on yourself. You/we do not have a great relationship with food or we would not be here. I/we would have done the same thing. Do not feel bad, you are such an inspiration to all of us.

Keep your chin up, think of all the people you have helped since your journey started!!

Take Care,

Maureen

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Dang I know how you feel! I'm starvin' like Marvin'. When I had the surgery I was told I wouldn't feel hungry, but I did. After my 1st fill, I was told I wouldn't be hungry, and I was. I had my 2nd fill last week and it's a *little* better since I physically can't eat much. I complained to my dr and they recommended me for counseling. I'm a little pissed off about that becasue I already know 1. Yes i'm fat i eat too dang much that's why i had to have the freakin surgery in the 1st place and 2. I think they are making the whole thing up about "you shouldn't be hungry".

I've found it does help to keep my stomach full of something like liquids or Water but mostly all this does is satiate me for a little bit then I have to go pee. I keep protien bars arond and nibble on those throughout the day.

The protien thing doesn't really work for me either. They swear if I get my 60 grams of protien daily (which I do) I shouldn't be hungry. I think it's a bunch of crap.

They are also telling me that my stomach growling is not because I'm hungry. Yeah right. After the band, my stomach growling causes me discomfort to the point where i need to eat something and right then !

I will say, through it all, this 2nd fill is workign a lot better than my first. Don't let yourself go too long on an empty stomach, other wise you will regret it and probably eat more than you should. My stategy is not to over-eat, but to keep myself from being hungry, which works for me.

I hope this helps and doesn't frustrate you further, but I feel like there has to be more people who feel like me and you. I really think the more you get filled, the easier it will get. so hang in there.

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Just checking in. How is it going? My hunger is gone but now I do not want to put anything in because now there is no pain. One sip of a shake and it hurts for a couple of minutes. Today I have had a few sips of a shake and not much Water. Seems like I am doing exactly what they said not to!

Enough about me, please let me know how you are?

Maureen

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Yes, I would like to know what caused it. I am nervous because I was abnded 3 weeks ago and am felling great, but do not have a lot of restriction and am worried that something is not right. I have not had a fill yest though.

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I am feeling so hungry also! I dont know what to do. I keep eating little bits every 2 hours, but after the liquid phase they say not to do that. So what's up? My stomach growls fiercely!

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Just checking in. How is it going? My hunger is gone but now I do not want to put anything in because now there is no pain. One sip of a shake and it hurts for a couple of minutes. Today I have had a few sips of a shake and not much Water. Seems like I am doing exactly what they said not to!

Enough about me, please let me know how you are?

Maureen

It's going ok with me for now. I really hate that hungry feeling though, but I deal with it and keep drinking.

So sorry you are having pain when you sip a shake. How thick is the shake? It shouldn't hurt drinking anything unless it is too thick or chunky, which I am sure is not the case in your situation. I would call your doctor, because I have been having creamy Soups, liquid yogurt and the shakes since 6 days post-op and no problems so far. I admit I jumped the gun, but never had a problem and I really am glad.

Take care and keep in touch my band sis across the country. ;)

Peace,

Judy

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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