I need HELP and some pointers... My Doc asked me to speak at his Weight Loss Seminar tonight. You know the Seminar we all attended deciding whether to do this….

Normally I am prepared - but I have had so much going on with multiple sick family members in and out of the hospital these past several weeks that I haven’t had a second to think about tonight.

Has anyone spoken at a seminar for WLS? How did you begin, what did you talk about? I am drawling a blank and this is so UNLIKE ME!!!!

I have 3 items of clothes and before and after pictures… but what do I say? Why am I freaking out??? This is so not me… thank you for any help, ideas or advice!!!

You find it easy to speak on here. And once you get started and see the interest from those attending the seminar, you will relax and enjoy the interaction. ,

The feedback from actual patients in my opinion is the most valuable. I know it was for me.

I have been asked to speak several times and each time I just go in with some pics I gathered and ad lib the entire presentation. Nothing planned.....just recall my experiences. And while at first your might seem apprehensive or embarrassed to show such revealing pics to strangers .....all they will notice is your confidence and seeing the expression of joy on your face from your accomplishment. This is what everyone seeking this step needs.

Go for it. You will surely enjoy the opportunity and the audience with benefit greatly.

Edited November 13, 201411 yr by Recycled

Jot down a quick outline and tell your story. I presume that's what the doc wants you to do. If this is for the seminar, it's a marketing thing for the doctor, right? You're not on his payroll, so warn him that you're going to be brutally honest. Then be honest, and share the good, the bad, and even the ugly. Like.... It hurts like hell when you first wake up, but it quickly gets better during the night and over the next few days. Like... be sure to get your fluids in, or you can get badly constipated during the first few weeks. And like... It's the best decision I could have made, and so far I'm thrilled with the results. (Assuming you really feel that way.) Good luck! Having read a number of your posts, I know you'll do great!

Thanks guys! Yes they want me to be extremely honest.

I dont know why i am freaking out a bit...

it will be fine... im sure it will be fine.. yup totally fine... lol

- thank you!

It went great!!!

Congratulations! I knew it would! Next week it's my turn. I've agreed to lead our monthly support group meeting and my topic is Social Eating and Surviving the Holidays. Wish me luck!

@Rogofulm I would love to hear how it goes & any tips you have after your meeting!!