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I'm doing good and calming down and losing the crazies.

Glad to hear it! Ironically, I'm in a four-week-long stall myself. After losing 70 pounds in the first three months, I've lost 5 in the past month. Intellectually, I know what's going on; but emotionally, that scale is a real bastard! :angry:

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@@Rogofulm

WOW - 70 lbs - that is awesome. I know you're so happy and most likely feel so much better. Even with my 15/17 lbs loss, I can tell a difference. I freaked out the first part of the week and everyone in this forum really helped with their encouraging words of reality. Some. I was unaware of. I was sleeved 9/16/14. That's only 4 weeks ago. But I think the recovery time and being at home makes it seem like a lot longer. But in doing the numbers - I'm not doing so bad. And thanks for the calorie note. I was concerned about not reaching that goal. No matter how hard I try - just can't get there. So it's good to know - I'm normal. However my kids might argue that point LOL. Thanks again. It's good to know we're all in this together ????. And great job on your loss thus far ????. Molly

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These posts are so encouraging and really needed to read it today. I too was down in the dumps thinking the weight isn't coming off fast enough. I now have a new outlook on things and putting the scale away for a while. I am exactly one month post-op and down 22lbs. I've never lost 22lbs in a month before. I'm in a stall right now but I'm waiting it out and looking ahead towards my goal!

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@@LadyJo

Good job !!!! I was sleeved 9/16/14. I've been wobbling back b forth with 17 and 19.8 lbs lost. I'm good with that. However just curious if anyone has , what I call "good days and bad days" - meaning : feeling great one day and terrible for the next 3 days. I had a few complications which caused me to stay in the hospital for 3 nights. I have episodes with nausea out of the blue. Diet hasn't changed. I'm sticking with puréed foods for a little longer. But the nausea just ruins my pretty Fall days. Any ideas ?

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Yes u still have lost weight you are no longer 221. I like to keep a pair of pants preferably jeans that are to small and every few days I just keep trying them on until they not only fit better and looser but you can tuck a shirt In and wear a belt.

The scale won't tell you clothes fit better but those clothes will tell u that your body is getting smaller and losing inches:) be patient and try to just weigh in once a month. Try the jeans thing it works. And you can do it withs tight shirt also :)

You got this.

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