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First off you need to modify your thinking to a more positive one.

Hold off deciding if it will work for you until you get more information. Go to a Seminar and speak to the source. Find out everything you can and then evaluate your reasons for wanting it and your determination and ability to make the needed changes in your life to have a successful outcome. It's a last resort, not a quick fix.

Good luck. ;)

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It CAN work, but it's not an "instafix". You have change your behavior to make it stick. For me, the sleeve gave me the restriction I needed to stop over eating. That was it.

I changed my relationship with food.

I started a 5 day per week exercise habit.

I started food journaling so I know whats going in vs what's burning off.

I attend face to face support groups and have sought out friends in my life who support me, and I them.

And I do it all with a mindset that I WILL succeed as long as I maintain the habits of the fit person I've learned to be.

“If you always do what you've always done, you’ll always get what you've always got.” ― Henry Ford

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It CAN work, but it's not an "instafix". You have change your behavior to make it stick. For me, the sleeve gave me the restriction I needed to stop over eating. That was it. I changed my relationship with food. I started a 5 day per week exercise habit. I started food journaling so I know whats going in vs what's burning off. I attend face to face support groups and have sought out friends in my life who support me, and I them. And I do it all with a mindset that I WILL succeed as long as I maintain the habits of the fit person I've learned to be. “If you always do what you've always done, you’ll always get what you've always got.” ― Henry Ford

Thanks for this reminder.

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There are countless studies that show that it DOES work. But not for everyone. Do your research and try to figure out if it can work for you. WLS is only a tool. It's still up to you whether or not to use that tool correctly.

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It's a normal fear, especially when we fail at every other diet. I was afraid and sometimes am still afraid of that myself.

However, data shows as well as what I've seen on here, that it works a whole heck of a lot more than anything else you could do. 5% success rate for all other diets up to 80% success rate with surgery.

And yes, you have to make changes but the surgery does enable those changes. I've logged my food for years and stayed fat but of course, I always stopped logging when I started overeating. I have just started logging again in the past few months. But I'm very focused on getting the right amount of Protein and the only way to know is to track my food. As we lose weight, exercise becomes easier to do so again, the surgery enables the new, healthier habit.

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It DOES work, it's NOT a magic pill but it DOES work and it's fabulous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I recommend it 100%!

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It is a very effective tool. It is also a life altering surgery... Both good and bad... And not to be taken lightly. I considered it for several years. Finally decided it was my best alternative. I am only 3 weeks out and admit the rough recovery has made me doubt my decision. But I think 6 months from now I will be very glad I did this. Heed the advice above. Go to some support group meetings and meet people who have had it done. Don't rush it.

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A tool. A wonderful tool. But, nothing to rush into and I believe the 6 month meets with the dietitian and getting active on these boards will, as I progress, be the main reason I am going to succeed, and turn my life around.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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      1. LeighaTR

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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