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Hi all!! I was sleeved August 13th and have been doing well. I am a kindergarten teacher and even returned to work this week. I prepared myself for this new part if my journey but I have to say today is the first day I feel overwhelmed.....overwhelmed because even though I'm not hungry I miss some foods....overwhelmed because nothing fits me any more......overwhelmed because I feel people in my life pulling away because they think I can't be included in social activities because I can't eat. I am on pureed food and having a hard time with the texture of it......nothing has bothered my new belly thank god!! Guess I am just having an emotional day!!!! Thanks for listening:)))

Mari

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I totally understand! I only told a few ppl an not my family. But me an the gf go to panera for our lunches I get their broccoli chedder soup..done great on it. I just eat a small..makes me feel like I can still do lunch. I have been missing eating also but I keep telling myself it's my new life an new body! I went thru my closet an all my clothes in my size 22 an 20s I took out!! I'm in 18 now..which I have from size 14 to 24..! You'll do great..Iv had some grouchy days the past few wks..I'm tired an dragging in afternoon some days..felt like crying a few days ago also. Its all normal. .emotional journey as well. Hang in there...:)

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Awwwww Hang in there...it will all get better!!!

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Yes! The emotional part of it was something I was not prepared for. None of the surgery education classes my insurance required prepared me to grieve the loss of my main coping mechanism - stress eating! Hang in there though. If you are willing to do the emotional work that is involved with overcoming eating issues, I promise it will be so worth it in the end. You are not alone! :-)

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I'm 2 months out and just had my first "tailgating" day yesterday. I had the same concerns as you a few weeks ago. However, I decided not to let my sleeve hold me back from things I live to do. Most of the time my family will ask what can I eat. If I'm going somewhere that I'm not sure, I pack my own meal! PS...I made it fine with the tailgate food but the Alabama heat kicked my but. I thought I was mostly recuperated but evidently I had not been challenged! Good luck, it will get better!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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