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Question. .. has anyone been hated on for doing this... ive been told I cheated... I post before n after pics..on my fb..cant people. JUST be happy for us

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Well that's what you get for looking so good in your jeans. Lol. And no, some people, I really want to say most people, just cannot be happy for any kind of succes others are experiencing. You have obviously rocked the hell out of your sleeve. Congrats! I hope I come close in my own success.

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People that say things like that are just unhappy folks and they want to spread the misery. You look great! Don't let them get you down. I can only hope for the results that you have worked for and gotten. That is also the reason I have decided not to tell anyone that I am going to have surgery.

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Who cares what they think! You look great! Just ignore them and know you did the right thing. I can't wait to get mine done. I am being kind of selective in who I tell at this point because I don't want negative comments before I do the surgery. They can say what they want afterwards. I do not care :)

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Who gives a flip what others think! We did we we had to do - for us! You look amazing, so I suspect there might be some jealousy involved!

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There will ALWAYS be "negative nellies" (I am trying to be nice) :P . You and many of us have/will do what is best (physically) for us.

You look VERY good!! Skinny jeans look good on you. You go girl! :)

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Once again, I am going to sing the praises of my family, friends, neighbors, acquaintances, clients and FB pals. 99% of their responses to my surgery and weight loss have been "congratulations" "good for you" "you should be proud of yourself" "you are very brave to have surgery, I wish I could do that" "you look great" "what's your surgeon's name".... Exactly 2 people have tried to downplay the surgery and both of them ended up looking like idiots in front of a lot of people with their ignorant comments. Maybe folks in conservative, Small town, USA just have better things to do than hate other people for being successful.

I suggest you unfriend the haters and find better quality people to hang out with.

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BTW, you look so cool!

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Well that's what you get for looking so good in your jeans. Lol. And no, some people, I really want to say most people, just cannot be happy for any kind of succes others are experiencing. You have obviously rocked the hell out of your sleeve. Congrats! I hope I come close in my own success.

Thank you... ive STRUGGLED WITH WEIGHT ALL MY LIFE..NOW IM GONNA ROCK IT..LOL

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People that say things like that are just unhappy folks and they want to spread the misery. You look great! Don't let them get you down. I can only hope for the results that you have worked for and gotten. That is also the reason I have decided not to tell anyone that I am going to have surgery.

I was proud to tell EVER 1... had nothing to hide...I do not go AROUND. ...showing OFF. .its been HARD. .not easy. .. but now that I fit a sz 5..im gonna Rock it..

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Once again, I am going to sing the praises of my family, friends, neighbors, acquaintances, clients and FB pals. 99% of their responses to my surgery and weight loss have been "congratulations" "good for you" "you should be proud of yourself" "you are very brave to have surgery, I wish I could do that" "you look great" "what's your surgeon's name".... Exactly 2 people have tried to downplay the surgery and both of them ended up looking like idiots in front of a lot of people with their ignorant comments. Maybe folks in conservative, Small town, USA just have better things to do than hate other people for being successful.

I suggest you unfriend the haters and find better quality people to hang out with.

His name is dr lyceem... las VEGAS... na not going to unfreind.... going to keep on POSTING. .. n posting.... til the unfreind ME... I DONT HAVE THE PROB.. THEY DO

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I'm honest with folks who ask me what I'm doing to look so great, but I was not brave enough to put it out on FB. Kudos to you for being so brave and honest! Haters gonna hate. Eff 'em! I say! And those jeans=amazing! I want some!

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Amazing! You look wonderful!

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Looking awesome!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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