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Except for my 3 dogs I will be all alone after my sleeve surgery. My cousin and my good friend are picking me up but after they get me settled in I am on my own.

Is this realistic? I have a client who recently had the surgery and he was fine with it so I planned accordingly but now I am starting to worry a little. I have plenty of friends on call and I am good friends with everyone on my block but the first night is my biggest worry.

Has anyone here done this alone? Any input about this? I really prefer to be sick in private.

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You'll be fine. They want you to be up and around to keep from getting blood clots. By that weekend I had run to the store and the mall. You'll just be weak so don't go too hard. Make sure you have Water. :)

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I have 3 dogs and live alone, as well. I did have someone stay with me the first night. I didn't really need her there, but it was comforting to know. I should also say that I was done as an outpatient and came home about 4 hours after my surgery. Due to my sister's insistence I also had someone stay with me the second night, but really didn't need them. On my third day home I sent my "nurses" away.

It was helpful to have my help feed the dogs. It was hard to bend over and pick up their bowls and put them back down.

You could do it. Just keep your kiddos off of your stomach (mine are lap dogs and they really didn't understand that!). If you can have help the first night you might feel more comfortable, but will be fine. Good luck!

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You will do fine. I had a friend bring me home. They stayed for a little while then left. Just make sure you have Water beside where you will be. Do the dogs go out on their own or you walk them. Walking is good but don't over do it the first couple days or have them pull you.

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I have a big fenced in yard for my little dog so I don't have to walk them. I can have a neighbor feed them the first day or two. I really hope I can get right out a be walking right away.

Lisa N...how the heck did you come to be home 4 hours after surgery!!! You must be made of steel!

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I spent the first 3 days/nights in a hotel with my sister in TJ. Spent the days shopping and walking, spent the nights hanging out, watching movies. I would have been fine, physically even without her company. Day 4 I came home to 2 dogs, 2 cats, 2 horses and a driveway full of snow. I managed on my own just fine.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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