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Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning



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i am new here, but have been reading posts constantly for the last 2 months...to choose a surgeon. 1st choice, unfortunately passed away. i read some kind of ranting from the original poster about not going to him because she found a complication (years later?). i disregarded that information. now i am looking at dr. ilan. this is not helpful. this sounds like a bunch of high school girls fighting over who got dumped. i'm not looking for my coordinator to be my best friend. unless something inappropriate happened while under anesthesia, i don't think any of this is relevant to his medical practice. was necessary medicine withheld for sexual favors? did they refuse to take them to the border unless they had sex? who is thinking about hooking up in mexico after bariatric surgery????? i have spoken with omar, and frankly he sounds pretty balanced compared to a couple of other coordinators in this price point i am not looking to go to Tijuana for a vacation, or to party like i am 18. i am looking for the most competent surgeon to do the job. i don't care so much about their romantic lives, as much as....how much weight have they lost? did they have any complications?

Oh look, another new person joined just to discredit me and our victims. Thank you. Just because I have X-rays showing where my surgeon botched my surgery and posted about it means I am nothing more than a raving lunatic and therefore, anything else I post is clearly garbage. And, of course, I am sure that none of the six violated woman, (that we know of, I am sure there are more) were interested in improving their health, losing weight or finding a competent doctor. Of course, you must be correct, they were looking for a good time! Well, that explains it.

Thank you so much for joining just to add your valuable information to this topic, posting, clarifying what really happened and clearing all this up.

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Not sl ut shaming (your words) I think that it speaks on her character therefore her creditabilty. Also Susan I think you did a poor a job on presenting this matter if this is truly something sinister going on its not being received that way.I think most of ppl are seeing this as a group of butt hurt women trying to get back at there jerk ex lover this is what it sounds like. So if he's abusing his power manipulating women into thinking they have to have sex with him prove it. Show us he's being creepy and making unwanted sexual advances on women who have said NO. Otherwise its he said she said.

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you have issues.

Absolutely, I have issues with someone who is supposed to be a professional satisfying his personal needs by preying on his patients.

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Stop using the word victim. I was victimized as a child with no choice, being manipulated by an older relative. The women and children that I work with are victims and survivors, fighting their way through abusive relationships, drug abuse, incest, and physical abuse and neglect.

 

These women are scorned lovers who were dumped and now feel vengeful because their love was rebuffed. Instead of just addressing the man who broke their heart privately, they decided to discredit his employer. They recruited Susan and Alex on their mission.

 

This really isn't about Omar. I hope the casual lurker sees that this thread was intending to discredit a doctor and his medical practice!

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Not sl ut shaming (your words) I think that it speaks on her character therefore her creditabilty. Also Susan I think you did a poor a job on presenting this matter if this is truly something sinister going on its not being received that way.I think most of ppl are seeing this as a group of butt hurt women trying to get back at there jerk ex lover this is what it sounds like. So if he's abusing his power manipulating women into thinking they have to have sex with him prove it. Show us he's being creepy and making unwanted sexual advances on women who have said NO. Otherwise its he said she said.

Uh, two of the people have posted here. Others are afraid to because of the bullying taking place. And, sorry, I only just now have gotten around to having hidden cameras placed in all the hospital and hotel rooms.

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If this stuff happened while in the hospital definitely totally not cool and would be illegal - but that doesn't seem to be the case here as it seems to have happened later when they returned to visit HIM (not as a patient).

 

Travelmego, I find it fascinating that, even though you have been told by more that one person, including one of the women involved, that the incident happened DURING the sleeve trip, you have yet to respond in any way.

 

Instead, you continue to repeat your misinformation about the supposed (now disproved) trip back to Mexico "for the affair". The quote above is just an example, you have repeated it more than once in your posts.

 

This is odd and it seems like you are willfully ignoring it. Reminds me of how you were about Susan accidentally posting under her fiance's login.

 

This is just an observation.

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Not sl ut shaming (your words) I think that it speaks on her character therefore her creditabilty. Also Susan I think you did a poor a job on presenting this matter if this is truly something sinister going on its not being received that way.I think most of ppl are seeing this as a group of butt hurt women trying to get back at there jerk ex lover this is what it sounds like. So if he's abusing his power manipulating women into thinking they have to have sex with him prove it. Show us he's being creepy and making unwanted sexual advances on women who have said NO. Otherwise its he said she said.

Uh, two of the people have posted here. Others are afraid to because of the bullying taking place. And, sorry, I only just now have gotten around to having hidden cameras placed in all the hospital and hotel rooms.

They only admitted to having consensual sex with him. They didn't really explained what happened I'll go back an re read it maybe I missed somthing but it didn't prove to me anything illegal or sinister happened.

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<p>You know what Lipstick lady, I coud be wrong but I actually I don't think there is any medical ethic in the usa covering an administrative support staff dating a former patient. I will have to research it. I am certainly not excusing the situation - I think it is a dumb thing to date former patients - the same way I think co-workers dating is not that bright. If this stuff happened while in the hospital definitely totally not cool - but that doesn't seem to be the case here as it seems to have happened later when they returned to visit HIM (not as a patient).</p> <p> </p> <p>And yes, several people have mentioned the scenario that I mentioned about the impression that people got that he was somehow molesting people while under anesthesia (or the like). </p>

. Let me clarify something for you Travelmego, what happened to me did take place when I was there for my sleeve and not on a return visit. I did go back to Tijuana, but not it was to have another surgery, he and I were not even communicating any more. I did stay at the same hotel because it is safe, nice and close to the hospital I was using. However I was not prepared for the fact that he has keys or pass cards rather to these rooms. Imagine my surprise to walk into my room one evening only to find him there.

So if you weren't talking any more, then you must have paid for your flight, pick up from the airport, hotel and never expected any other travel arrangements from him. He basically just showed up to fk you and you had no idea. Right? Answer carefully because I've got a screen shot of you telling someone that he left you at the dentist because he was busy working and that made you mad.

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For pete's sake what do her marriage vows have to do with the issue at hand here? Really not relevant, sorry. More sl ut shaming I'm afraid.

 

REALLY? I mean really?! She stood before God and made promises. She's just as much a liar and unethical as sunnuri! It has everything to do with the type of person she is... overweight or not! Gastric sleeve or not! She's married for Christ's sake!

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I can only read at a third grade level so I couldn't make it through all these posts made by higher level readers. From what I could comprehend though is that you should be careful not to have sex with a stranger even if they is nice to you. You should be careful. If you are their boss you should tell them not to sleep with their customers cuz it is bad for business. Plus, you don't need to have the sleeve surgery and also wind up with no baby so you might want to just say no or bring a lot of condoms. Now, frankly, I saw Omar's picture an I so would have fkd him, but then again I'm a big whore. I hope this helps everyone.

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******=wh*re

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oh geez! I am so glad i am going to Angeles Hospital. i'll stay there for 3 days with the hubby at my side. no shopping, no need for a 3rd hand. this is some scarry stuff....

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For pete's sake what do her marriage vows have to do with the issue at hand here? Really not relevant, sorry. More sl ut shaming I'm afraid.

 

REALLY? I mean really?! She stood before God and made promises. She's just as much a liar and unethical as sunnuri! It has everything to do with the type of person she is... overweight or not! Gastric sleeve or not! She's married for Christ's sake!

 

who's sunnuri? Sounds like menga or whatever

 

From what I could comprehend though is that you should be careful not to have sex with a stranger even if they is nice to you. I hope this helps everyone.

 

LMBO that's great advice we should all heed it.

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Somebody needs to take out the trash.  

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