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You're both super cute! Congrats on your success and positive attitude through all the rough patches!

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Your journey has been filled with alotnof hardships but yet you have rolled with the punches in a state of grace that simply amazes me! I dont think I would be able to be in such good spirits as you are. You are simply amazing!!! I am still praying for you & a speedy recovery as you do not deserve to be going through more complications. You look absolutely stunning & you have a beautiful smile! Keep your head high as you have been & may you be blessed with a future filled with wonderful memories & be able to put all of these hardships behind you once & for all!!! Your husband is certainly one lucky man to have you as a wife!!!

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you are the first person ever to say that my hubby is fortunate to have me as a wife @@cherbear33 Most see the hardship that he has endured with all I have been through. And I see it too. He is the strongest man I have ever known and I have fallen in love with him all over again over his strength and kindness for me.

It was very sweet of you to see it a different way...Thank you..You brought tears to my eyes!!!!!!!!

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Not really. Still have a drain hanging from my side but it is what it is! :)

I've been wondering how you were doing. I read about your complications - wow, stiff stuff but you've powered through it!

How are you doing now?

And I love your pictures! One of these days I will post some of mine.

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You look peaceful and beautiful. And your home is gorgeous!

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You (and your hubby) look great! Thanks for posting and always, thanks for your kind and gentle words you give so generously to everyone on here. You are an inspiration.

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You (and your hubby) look great! Thanks for posting and always, thanks for your kind and gentle words you give so generously to everyone on here. You are an inspiration.

You give gently and kindly as well @@Kindle Your pretty cool yourself kid!

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I've been wondering how you were doing. I read about your complications - wow, stiff stuff but you've powered through it!

How are you doing now?

And I love your pictures! One of these days I will post some of mine.

I can't wait to see your success pictures...Your going to love the journey and the ups and downs. As you travel this road you will find yourself and be so happy you did this!

I go back to the hospital tomorrow for the surgeon to check things out again! Thank you so much for asking! :)

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Congratulations, RJ. Now, suggestion (if I may): Go get a little sexy, fitted, black dress, or even a red one, and show those new curves! Rock on, RJ.

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Congratulations, RJ. Now, suggestion (if I may): Go get a little sexy, fitted, black dress, or even a red one, and show those new curves! Rock on, RJ.

I have the skinniest legs on the planet......And I have to get some skin removed...I may find a long black dress. But no doubt my little black dress will never happen...

TY Sweetie!

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You're gorgeous...arm candy for your hubby ;)

Thank you for your continuous contributions of wisdom on this site and to all it's members, as well as sharing your journey. You're awesome, mam...always a source of inspiration.

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Wow RJ, you look so beautiful. Your outside is a good reflection of your inside. Judging by the pictures and your smile, no one would believe you have been through so much. Thanks for continuing to share your story with us and inspiring us! You are a handsome couple. Sending blessings your way for continued triumph! :-)

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You give gently and kindly as well @@Kindle Your pretty cool yourself kid!

Ha! My friends would have a good laugh if they ever heard me described as gentle or kind. Lol. But thanks!

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Ha! My friends would have a good laugh if they ever heard me described as gentle or kind. Lol. But thanks!

I see the @@Kindle here. She counts to me! :)

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Wow RJ, you look so beautiful. Your outside is a good reflection of your inside. Judging by the pictures and your smile, no one would believe you have been through so much. Thanks for continuing to share your story with us and inspiring us! You are a handsome couple. Sending blessings your way for continued triumph! :-)

Thank you for your kindness. I cried when I read your words!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

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