HaddocksEyes

Your stomach does get a bit bigger over time, but it will never be the size it was prior to surgery. You can gain back the weight. If a post-surgery sleever chooses calorically-dense (is that a word?) foods that fit in small spaces (think milk shakes, candy, blended coffee drinks, etc.) you can take in too many calories and put it back on.

I think you are right. I didn't want to admit that because I was thinking "geez, if I lower it to 1,000, what will I be eating when I weigh 145 pounds?" But maybe it doesn't work like that. I am on the hunt for a new nutritionist because while I may be able to email my old one, I think I need a little more help than that. I know it is my diet. If I were to tell you that I don't eat ice cream or have cake once in a while, I would be lying and what's more, all of you would know it!! ha! Thank you so much for your response! It is much appreciated.

Hi all! Had to change insurances as of the first of this year. Already missing the folks over at UC Davis....loved Dr. Ali and his staff. Anyway, I have been on the stall of a lifetime (well, not that long, but sometimes it feels like it!) for about 10 months now. I exercise 4-5 days per week faithfully, lifting as heavy as I can go with weights and about a half hour of cardio. I work hard outside almost every weekend as we have 13 acres. For example, last weekend I helped to dig holes, mix/shovel concrete using a wheelbarrow and shovel to set 21 posts on our property and THEN the next day carry boards to the posts to nail them to the posts. Hot and heavy work. But I love it. I have every reason to suspect this stall is related to my diet (yes, I do get more than 80 grams of Protein per day). So, I am on the search for a new dietician or nutritionist through Sutter. The way it works is I have to choose either between Dr. Patching or the other doctor in Auburn (cannot remember his name at the moment) and then I guess I see whoever is on their staff? Just wondering if anyone worked with either of these two doctors and could recommend a good nutritionist. I have United Health Care. Thanks in advance!

Kindle, I forgot to address the Water issue. I slack on that. I usually get about 40-45 ounces per day. I should up that. Thanks!

Thank you for taking the time to respond to my post. I really agree with the responses and think that my carbs are too high. I will try lowering them to about 60 grams per day and make up the difference in Protein grams. 1,300 to 1,500 calories per day does sound like a lot but I was maintaining on about 1,800 per day before I got really serious about bodybuilding. At the time I contacted her (which was about 4 weeks ago) she believed that the lack of weight loss on the scale is due to recomposition - increase in muscle mass and a decrease of fat at proportionate levels. Which is understandable. But I have not lost any more inches, so I was doubting that this was still happening. The new thing I have been doing for the past week (now in week two) is 30 minutes of high intensity intervals during cardio. Then, during my weightlifting sets I take "active" rests. So this means that when I do a set of reps, instead of standing around or just sitting for the 45 -60 second rest period before I start the next set, I move. I take a medicine ball and do squats with it or I will take another weight, hold it in both hands and swing it above my head and then down again, over and over. I am hoping this will jump start my lazy metabolism. I have said it before but will say it again - the gastric sleeve was one of the greatest gifts I have been given and I am so glad, every day, I had this surgery. I would not be where I am at today without it.

Hi All! Glad to see a few familiar faces around here. I see there have been some changes so I am not sure where to get some advice. So I lost 65 pounds. I stalled out in June of last year (2015). I stopped going to the gym because I started to commute with my husband to work. And honestly, I was sure I would still lose some weight. Yeah, not so much. So in January I decided to go back to the gym and work out in earnest. Consulted my favorite bodybuilding site and went to work. I love lifting weights! But, not much has happened. I lost like maybe 2 or 3 pounds. Lost one inch on my waist and hips. That's always a good thing. I'm not going to stop going at all, just wondering what I can do to speed this up. I'll be at two years out in August and I have another 70 pounds to lose. I can't see my old nutritionist anymore because I had to change medical plans. But I did manage to message her and she recommended eating between 1,300 and 1,500 calories per day (I was eating 1,800 before and maintaining just fine on that). I'm at a size 16 (which is great coming from a size 22) but I'm not where I need to be. What would people recommend? I'm thinking low carb may do it? I eat under 100 grams of carbs per day, about 140 grams of Protein and then the fats make up the rest. Thanks guys! Glad to see you all!

meh - a little over 9 months out and I've gained my first 5 pounds. Totally my fault and no one to blame but me. up until now I had lost a little more than 60 pounds. I refuse to backtrack. I never got a full "honeymoon" period, as you so commonly hear. I healed fast and felt normal quickly, and I am able to eat anything I want to. I think I will experience these "firsts" faster than some. But it keeps me honest. I don't have a lot of time to develop long-standing expectations (going a long time without gaining weight) so I think in some way, this is good. Wake up call came earlier in the game rather than later. I must meet the challenge and overcome. We all knew this was not a magical fix, but a tool. I've gotta treat it that way!

2 c-sections here. Had pain with both of them but the pain from the C-section lasted longer than the pain with the sleeve. Also, the pain was different between the two. I would say that for me, the C-sections hurt more.

I too am a slow loser. Congratulations on your weight loss! I've not been doing what I am supposed to be doing so for the first time, I have gained 5 pounds. It's a huge wake up call for me to get back to the gym and the low carb, high Protein lifestyle that I need. thanks so much for sharing!

Glad you brought this up. Before the surgery I thought about this to remember if anyone I knew lost a significant amount of weight and kept it off. I couldn't think of one person. I even asked other people if they knew anyone that lost a significant amount of weight and kept it off and they all said "no". When I say "significant amount" I mean 60 pounds or more. It really highlighted for me that for some people (like me) the overly-touted mantra of "just eat less and exercise" wasn't going to work without adding in another tool, like weight loss surgery. This has been and is such a gift. I bought a pair of size 16 jeans the other day and while a bit too tight for my liking, they actually fit. I haven't been in a size 16 since 1993. That's a big deal.

Ha..I didn't think that but I didn't think that I would stop losing weight at a fast pace so soon in the journey. It feels like I didn't get a honeymoon period. At about 4 months out I stopped losing 2 pounds per week. Then I went to 1 pound per week and by 6 months I was losing about a half a pound per week, which is where I am now - .5 pound per week. Hey, creeping down is a lot better than creeping up. I think I could have better progress if I exercised more.

I do! I love the shakes. I'm 9 months out.

Mine is a not-so-subtle reference to Alice in Wonderland. I chose it because of a few things: --Alice makes her second trip to Wonderland through the Looking Glass. She has been there before, knows of it's strangeness, but continues through because she knows, from experience, she can have a wonderful adventure, even though she may encounter hardships. Our journey through the gastric sleeve process is similar - we know that it will be hard, but we power through knowing that overall, it will be worth it. --The poem in this book is first called "Haddocks Eyes" by the White Knight, though it comes to have other names. It's a parody of Wordsworth's poem Resolution and Independence where Wordsworth meets a man, lowly in stature, that teaches him that hardships are to be approached with patience and acceptance. The poem in Alice in the Looking Glass makes parody of Wordsworth's solemn realization - poking fun at the serious Wordsworth. We should also approach life like this...with seriousness but also the willingness to poke fun at ourselves to keep things from getting too overwhelming.

This is weird but some people swear by putting their deodorant in the normal spot in their arm pit and then continuing down over their scar (once it has completely closed). I've seen pictures of this and it does look like it works!

It has minorly affected things. I have been more adamant that my husband stop smoking (yes, I am still after him about that!). I look like I will be around for a long time (labs are really good) and if he keeps up with what he is doing, he won't. He has a family history of smoking and cancer. I have been married for 20 years.