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I'm so sorry I'm just shy , truth be told I've read things from the lady's room , but was to shy to reply to any of there post

You shouldn't be shy... You're gorgeous!

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I'm so sorry I'm just shy , truth be told I've read things from the lady's room , but was to shy to reply to any of there post

You shouldn't be shy... You're gorgeous!

Hello Splatt, as mentioned in this thread, being shy is not a good reason for not posting in the lady's room, but rather, it is against our guidelines. Note the stickies at the top of the Lady's and Men's forums:

http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/250198-attention-men-the-powder-room-is-for-ladies-only/

http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/250199-attention-ladies-the-man-room-is-for-men-only/

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Hello Splatt, as mentioned in this thread, being shy is not a good reason for not posting in the lady's room, but rather, it is against our guidelines. Note the stickies at the top of the Lady's and Men's forums: http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/250198-attention-men-the-powder-room-is-for-ladies-only/ http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/250199-attention-ladies-the-man-room-is-for-men-only/

I was implying that he shouldn't be shy in general. It had nothing to do with him posting in the ladies forum

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Hello Splatt, as mentioned in this thread, being shy is not a good reason for not posting in the lady's room, but rather, it is against our guidelines. Note the stickies at the top of the Lady's and Men's forums: http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/250198-attention-men-the-powder-room-is-for-ladies-only/ http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/250199-attention-ladies-the-man-room-is-for-men-only/

I was implying that he shouldn't be shy in general. It had nothing to do with him posting in the ladies forum

It would appear you have missed the point ... and the context.

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No, don't worry plumb. No confusion. We had some problems a couple years ago with folks making inappropriate comments in each other's forums, so it was decided to try to police them a bit before things get elevated to an uncomfortable level. Just like this post:

http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/304474-average-weight-loss-during-first-2-weeks-guys-only-please/

Men and women should feel they have a safe place to post gender specific questions. As a host here at BariatricPal, it is my job to remind folks to be aware of what forum they are in and to respect the guidelines.

No drama.

Hope you are doing well today.

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I'm sorry for making you uncomfortable. I have seen males post responses about issues regarding pregnancy, sex, and other feminine issues so I thought it was okay. I never intended to be raunchy or insensitive. When I said men would be excited to hear that side effect I really did mean it. I mentioned it to my husband (who is on the fence about WLS) and he got excited because he'd never heard about that side effect since I'm a woman and only talk about how it effects my body. I didn't mean to make u feel disrespected. Again I'm very sorry.

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I really would like it if the ladies stayed out of this room. I try not to get too involved in their women's issues. I think it only fair that they do the same.

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So it's been 6 months and I'm down 95 LBS and I'm no longer a type 2 diabetic and I don't take any meds any more !! I went down from a size 42 pants to a size 32 , and I now wear a small / med , shirt now. ,, I work out almost everyday , I run a 3 mile fitness trail in homdel park in New Jersey , and do weight lifting / and also swim laps , it's very hard work but I do not have any of that saggy skin I feel great !! And I'm starting to look great I think I'm starting to see some ab muscles ,WOW, but I said it before and I'll say it again none of that tops the fact that my ""penis"" has tripled in size !!!! Well just. Giving an up date !! I hope you'll and doing as well as I 'em I still haven't told everyone that I hade the sleeve done I guess it's cause I'm still worried that I will fail and it would look like I had this done for nothing

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got lost in this topic because soo much seems like it was deleted.... either way. congrats on your wgt loss and whatever else happened....

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The information is readily available that for every 30-35 pounds a guy looses he should gain an inch in length. Here's one such link http://www.oprah.com/health/Paging-Dr-Oz.

The way I look at it, I'm planning to loose 150 pounds, that's 5 more inches...imagine what that'll do for my self-esteem! :rolleyes:

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I am torn on this women posting thing. On the one hand it bugs me that some don't seem to think the rules apply to them. On the other hand, I think it is rather naive to think that women aren't going to read threads from this room so what does it matter if they post as well.

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