Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Short term disability



Recommended Posts

Hi all!

I plan on using FMLA and short term disability for my surgery. Did anyone else take advantage of this? I really want to take 6 -8 weeks to fully heal and be able to get myself on a strict schedule to make sure i am as successful as possible with this. I work from home for a credit card company and its a very emotionally stressful and mentally taxing job. I commute 2 times a week sometimes just for change of scenery. What was your time off time frame and how would i go about asking my doctor for an excused 6-8 weeks off work. This is my first time ever in my life having surgery as well.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I used FMLA for my time off too. I was off 3.5 weeks but my doctor said I could go back in 2. I'm a paralegal, so I'm stationary but still stressful. It took me about 6 weeks to really feel myself again.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

So it is possible for the doctor to give me the time off that i need? Really i could take 3 months but i think 2 months would more than enough to get my eating, exercising and mental state all under control. I am just afraid of what the doctor may say.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I work in a hospital. .do little bit of patient lifting. My doc office said 4wks. I just applied for FMLA last week for 4wks. .I really wanted 6-8 wks, but didn't know if doc would allow that or sign off on it. I feel this new life style is challenging enough learning our new way of eating. .and it should automatically be a 6wk off. I especially work nights, 12 hrs shift. I applied for FMLA, I'd short term disability a separate thing?..do I have to call the company that process our FMLA and tell them I want STD also?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I agree with you, i need this time to really get my eating and exercising completely under my belt so when i go back to work i feel ready. Ask ur employer i spoke with my boss and she gave me all the information i needed. I just wonder if my doctor would sign off on 2 months... Or even be willing to do 3 months if he knew i could take it. Does anyone know how to bring this up? Or the correct verbiage to use?

Edited by Kgregory

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I took 8 weeks off. I started with 6 and got an extra 2. I am an RN so I needed the time to heal. I have to move around a lot in my job. I know people go back after 5 days extra good for them! I needed the time to get over the pain and get my energy level back.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Jealous. I'll be back at work 6 days after surgery. I sit so that helps, but oh is love a few weeks off!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yes, I'm off for at least 4 weeks and it could be more if the doctor thinks I need it. I also used STD and FMLA.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My surgeon only approves two weeks off work unless there is a complication. My short term disability carrier would also only approve two weeks. I'm a HR Manager so I have an office position but it can certainly be highly stressful. If you can get more time off, take it! I'm still exhausted every day and I'm six weeks out.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • vsg.with.sharon

      Hey everyone!
      I’m new here! Looking for some friends! 🥰
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 3 replies
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

      3. Doughgurl

        I am back home after my bypass surgery in Tiajuana. I'm post op day 4. Everything went great! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who have not encountered much pain at all, no nausea thus far and I'm having no problem keeping down broths and water. Thank you for your well wishes. I cant wait to keep up this journey and have a chance at better health and simply better quality of life. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, and everything won't be peaches and cream, but at least I have a great start so far. 😍

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×