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My first day as a veteran



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Today is my one year surgiversary. I am officially a veteran, though I know my journey is really just starting. A little back story, I have been overweight my entire life. My mother put me on my first diet in the 3rd grade. I had thought about surgery off and on for about 15 years. It wasn't until I researched the sleeve that I could finally say yes. It was one of the best decisions I have ever made. This past year has truly been a journey of discovery. Here are a few of my favorite experiences along the way:

-Discovering I have bones. Can I just say I love my collarbones?! They were first on the scene and now hold a special place in my heart.

-The day I moved out of the basement. You know what I'm talking about. The fact that department stores shove the plus size department into the cellar or some other god foresaken part of the store.

-The first time I "saw" myself. The first time, I could tell I lost weight. I was surprised by my own reflection.

-The first time I went for a run, on purpose and by choice. I am now doing my second 5k next week.

-Reconnecting with friends and family. At 250+ lbs, I avoided social situations. After a few months of shedding pounds, the embarrassment and shame began to subside and I started reconnecting with people who matter to me. I am so grateful for that.

There have been so many positives along the way, I am excited to see what the next 12 months bring.

HW: 263, DOS: 233, CW: 142.

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its wonderful to read your story...I too am motivated. My problem is I cant walk much due to arthritis. But I will succeed.

thanks and best wishes

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Congrats Erp! Love your non-scale victories! I was frightened to move out of the basement, but I've gotten used to stopping in the big world of normal sizes.

Lynda

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Congratulations. I'm so happy for you.

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Congrats. I officially became a vet on Wednesday.

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Congrats! You have done well, keep up the great work!

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Thank you all. The guidance that so many of you vets have provided along the way was invaluable to me. I hope I can pay it forward to the next group of newbies.

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