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I would love your opinion and I know you have them!!! you will not hurt my feelings!

My husband wanted to take a quick photo of me before I left for work this morning and they are not staged cause I had no idea what he wanted, they are god awful, but this is what I looked like leaving for the office today. Husband says I look great, sexy blah blah blah, he has to right?

In your honest opinion do I look thin? This is my ultimate goal.

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Sorry I have no idea how to turn the photos, they are fine in my computer. any suggestions?

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While I personally wouldn't categorize you as "thin" I do think you look "right". Your weight looks appropriate for your body and you look healthy and great. You do not look overweight. That is my honest opinion. Congratulations, you look beautiful

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Exactlyas Seela stated... Plus it is all subjective. I sort of feel negatively about the word thin as I do the word fat.. They are both extremes.. I think you look great and healthy and I am sure you probably feel 100 times better. From your stats you are still about 40lbs from goal.. I can see you probably getting VERY happy with about another 20.. I know why you are asking though.. I get confused when I look at myself too and I dont trust the people around me to be honest.. They love me so they are more worried about my feelings than anything :)

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Thank you!

I appreciate your honest comments! Made me feel so much better about where I am at. I have this perviable muffin top that will never go away until I have plastics and its confuses my vision of me,

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I would say yes your “normal” now you didn’t make it easy as you’re in jeans and a jumper lol
But yeah you are!
I think we have the same belly lol
like oh I can wear 1 size down but when I do a bunch of saggy skin gives me a impressive muffin top I can’t jam under my waistband so I go a size up, where you know the butt and legs are a little looser but way less saggy skin muffin top lol
I think you look great!

Btw in the picture album right click the pic and either rotate clockwise or anti clockwise click to open it and it should show you the actual way it was taken and now turned.
I assume that pic was taken on a phone? Always have to turn them once loaded to a puter lol

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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