I cannot wait to see my SIL on turkey day. We have not spoken nor have we seen each other since January. At the time, she was about 35 pounds lighter than me and LOVED to gloat about it in a not so subtle manner.

She would give me her clothing rejects with a casual, "These may be too small for you, but you are dieting, right?". She loved to commiserate with me about our mutual attempts to follow whatever diet we were on but loved to point out that her points/calories/units were lower than mine because she was lighter.

Our last conversation was her snickering about another overweight acquaintance's failed weigh-in, laughing that she did SO MUCH better and me asking if she talked about me as nastily as she did everyone else.

She didn't like that. My bad...

Fast forward to Thanksgiving and me being at least 90 pounds down from our last visit. I would bet any amount of money she is up at least 10 or 20.

I can't wait!!!!!

Who do you look forward to seeing during this journey?

This was the absolute best thread! I am being sleeved on Tuesday, ahhhh but all the feelings everyone has talked about with members of their families, I can relate. No one has ever said anything negative to me per se, but I have one member who constantly talks about diet with me and always looking me up and down and also at what I eat. So annoying! I can't wait to see her at Xmas when hopefully I'll be at least 20 lbs down and then any other holiday where she can't do anything but look at me and be jealous. Btw, no one knows I'm having the surgery

So I wore these little (to me!) size 10 (size 10 b*****s!!!!) slim black ankle pants with a silky tan and black polka dotted top that ties at the waist in a very flattering way and is just low enough to make the twins look UH-MAY-ZING without looking like I'm trying to hard. Not only did my SIL not say a thing to me about my weight, but she didn't say a word directly to me AT ALL! Hahahaha! Snoooooooort! (Ever laughed so hard you snort!ed?) Heeeeheeeheeeeee! Ahahahahaahahaaaaa! Snooooort! Heeeeeee! She wasn't at all amused by all the selfies my teens and I took with various relatives either. Not even a little. Snooooooort!

So great it must have felt! Very happy for you. I had a question for u though. I believe I read that u said ur SIL was in a size 18-20 herself? If that was true, I would think that makes it even worse that she looked down on you. Who is she to say anything! And now it's been a few days, have u heard anything from her yet or have u heard she has commented to anyone else?

So I wore these little (to me!) size 10 (size 10 b*****s!!!!) slim black ankle pants with a silky tan and black polka dotted top that ties at the waist in a very flattering way and is just low enough to make the twins look UH-MAY-ZING without looking like I'm trying to hard. Not only did my SIL not say a thing to me about my weight, but she didn't say a word directly to me AT ALL! Hahahaha! Snoooooooort! (Ever laughed so hard you snort!ed?) Heeeeheeeheeeeee! Ahahahahaahahaaaaa! Snooooort! Heeeeeee! She wasn't at all amused by all the selfies my teens and I took with various relatives either. Not even a little. Snooooooort!

love it! Size 10. Awesome! And yes SMALL!

Where's the flipping pics????

I demand pics!!!

I'm with Laura!!! We want pics!

So I wore these little (to me!) size 10 (size 10 b*****s!!!!) slim black ankle pants with a silky tan and black polka dotted top that ties at the waist in a very flattering way and is just low enough to make the twins look UH-MAY-ZING without looking like I'm trying to hard. Not only did my SIL not say a thing to me about my weight, but she didn't say a word directly to me AT ALL! Hahahaha! Snoooooooort! (Ever laughed so hard you snort!ed?) Heeeeheeeheeeeee! Ahahahahaahahaaaaa! Snooooort! Heeeeeee! She wasn't at all amused by all the selfies my teens and I took with various relatives either. Not even a little. Snooooooort!

So great it must have felt! Very happy for you. I had a question for u though. I believe I read that u said ur SIL was in a size 18-20 herself? If that was true, I would think that makes it even worse that she looked down on you. Who is she to say anything! And now it's been a few days, have u heard anything from her yet or have u heard she has commented to anyone else?

Exactly. She has NO ROOM to talk and no, we have no mutual friends so I would never know what she might have to say about me.

Exactly. She has NO ROOM to talk and no, we have no mutual friends so I would never know what she might have to say about me.

But the important thing here, is do you really give a fiddlers fart?! You're tiny and she's twisted and bitter and... has a much larger bum than you now.

Lalalalalalalala... You win, you win, you win! Yay!

I'm clearly having a super 'mature' evening this evening...

Oh, come on. Bust out some more talk about knickers and wankers and stuff! LOL

I can't have this stuff requested of me! My guttural genius presents itself in fits of inspiration.....