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Seela

By Seela, in Rants & Raves

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sophiepants    489

sophiepants
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Thinking before you speak is definitely in order. I'm not sure but from the OP's (of the post in question) there sounded to me like something was off in his replys. Take it how you want but there was a def CRY for help from him! Being that young and peer presser hard reading the whole thing would help before comment. Just my thought. We're all here to get help in some form or another. If you don't have anything of value to add to the thread then read and move on. Lots of others have valuable advice for the ones you cant help. :D

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kj44    215

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I don't eat donuts either' date=' but I did fall on a piece of pecan pie last week.....3 times.[/quote']

Lol!

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sophiepants    489

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I don't eat donuts either, but I did fall on a piece of pecan pie last week.....3 times.

3 Times dang legs !!! or was it the chair tripping you up to the table.lol I happened to get my fingers in a banana cream pie once!!! Even tryd to feed it to my 21/2 year old.....unlucky for me (or lucky) he didn't receive it well!! SIGH

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gmanbat    5,889

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Don't be a hater because I wouldn't let you watch.

I didn't contemplate the thread rating changing. I was reading the replies to my wife...a mistake... she said she knew when she heard "bending over" which way it would turn. Now I have to deal with the honeydo list and drop out.

Durn females! One track minds!

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gamergirl    4,610

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How does every thread on this forum turn into food porn at some point?? :P

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Nicolanz    1,484

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I think if a stranger flat out called me an a**hole for venting my struggles, apology or not, I would think they sucked as a person! Lol that was really bold.....right?

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EatUmUp    9

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Hi, I'm new here and I have to say that you are all guilty of bullying. I've been following all of the threads on here for a while and they're are some of you that just can't take a heartfelt appology at face value. Personally, I don't think she should have apologized, maybe that kid needed to be pulled off the teet for a minute. In any event, why don't you practice what you preach. Just my two cents.

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sophiepants    489

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mmmm interesting!!

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gmanbat    5,889

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Hi, I'm new here and I have to say that you are all guilty of bullying. I've been following all of the threads on here for a while and they're are some of you that just can't take a heartfelt appology at face value. Personally, I don't think she should have apologized, maybe that kid needed to be pulled off the teet for a minute. In any event, why don't you practice what you preach. Just my two cents.

It'll cost you more than that. Give up the lunch money, kid.

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