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Okay you guys know I love you all right? But I think it's time to stop beating up on that poor girl. She was confused. It happens. There's no shame in being confused/wrong. She can read this thread. And if it were me reading it, I would find it extremely hurtful that a bunch of people were picking on me.

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Oh goodness, y'all are cracking me up this morning. :D

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Nothing wrong with being "confused" but when you say it with the air of superiority disguised as medical advancement and stated as a fact...well, the can has been opened...

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WTH... Why did my post go postal? And why can't we wit things?

And BTW.. I think Alex combined the forums so that the turmoil would generate more activity. ;)

I've been thinking the exact same thing. Page clicks generate revenue, so each time someone pops over to participate in, or even check out, a squabble, more and more ad dollars drop into his bank account.

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GG, you're right.

I'll go back to figuring out more ways to get written up in my local Police Beat.

Or you could just let the dog do it. He appears to have a handle on it so far.

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I've been thinking the exact same thing. Page clicks generate revenue, so each time someone pops over to participate in, or even check out, a squabble, more and more ad dollars drop into his bank account.

I'm okay with him making money. I mean, it's free to us, the guy has to get something out of it, right? I like when people make money and are profitable. It means they will be motivated to create a great site, and keep it up, which is good for all of us. He deserves every penny, IMHO.

But to be honest, I doubt anyone expected the drama and turmoil the merging of sites has created. I think we've all taken it to a new low.

Getting better every day though :)

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No…my little assholed dog decided that it would be a great idea to bark in the yard, and refuse all commands to come the fucked inside. Let me tell you, it's disconcerting when your doorbell rings that early.

Did you explain that he was just in pain from trying to poop out his staples....

When you explain these things to the uneducated you open their eyes to the amazing advancements in dog excrement!!

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I have employed the Facebook hive brain in the matter of People of Small Town IL vs Dog of Fluffnomore. Although there are a couple of people who believe those who called the po-po on me are douchednozzle, passive aggressive miscreants, I have to admit that it is still my fault for giving up. The words, "Then stay out there, you little assholed, I don't care" may have been snarled through the door.

The overall consensus is that I should bake some Cookies or pumpkin bread and drop them off with an apologetic note.

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Okay you guys know I love you all right? But I think it's time to stop beating up on that poor girl. She was confused. It happens. There's no shame in being confused/wrong. She can read this thread. And if it were me reading it, I would find it extremely hurtful that a bunch of people were picking on me. <br><br> <3

You are exactly right.

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So does that mean we go back to talking about food? ? Just what the enabling food addiction thread needs food porn!!

Ok well deep fried turkey and gumbo it is.

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I personally think gumbo is one of the best things ever created!

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OK, what would you give my neighbor? Please don't say a flaming poop sack.

Well since gumbo is the topic du jour..

Why not a big sack of that? :D

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food Porn! Double layered chocolate cake with caramel melted into the cake, caramel butter cream between the layers, chocolate fudge icing, wrapped in mini chips and toffee chips on top

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