female only Getting pissed

[oldoneyoungagain 200]

When I first had weight loss surgery (band) and couldn't eat, my husband (then alive and has since died)felt so guilty that he didn't want to eat in front of me. I appreciated his thoughtfulness, but he didn't have to diet, I did, and I told him that it was fine, that I understood but he didn't have to do that. I had this surgery for myself, to live longer and to be with him. The down side he died within 1 1/2 years after that surgery. I will always be gratful for his feelings and the fact that I didn't lose sight why I had to have this surgery and why I wanted this surgery. I took responsibility for my decision, owned up to it, and never held him accountable. If he seen me today with the bypass, and how much more weight I have lost, I know how proud he would be. I am sure he is giving me a high five from above, right now, and if he could he would be telling me how beautiful I am. Life is short, even if you live to 100. Always be gratful for the seconds you have with a loved one.

[tkelizabeth 0]

The day I got back from surgery my dad asked everyone who wanted subway, I was so mad about it because he knew I couldn't. It's something I'll need to learn to accept that others aren't on these restrictions, and I'm bettering myself so it's for the greater good.

[fabboo 2]

Dump the dood !!! I know a guy that helped his wife regain all of her weight back, and now belittles her over this matter! He is huge and wants an eating buddy....... I have spoken to him many times over his lack of support.