grr another hoop to jump over (vent)

So i started my journey in April and flew right threw everything and met my surgeon on May 30 and she said i can get the gastric bypass not the sleeve which i had wanted after that i chickened out and decided against it till about 3 weeks ago. so i called my doc and told her i wanted it again i have a endoscopy on Wednesday and then she will tell me from there if i am okay for surgery on Oct 9... the problem is i have no insurance and was gonna get medicaid and in my state you have to be incapacitated for 30 days minunm to qualify if your married etc and you only get for the days your incapacitated so they call today and tell me they are denying me cause i need to apply for insurance 10 days before my surgery WHAT 10 days before that means apply meet with someone then they have to tell me i need to meet a spend down then they will open then it needs to be prior authorized all in 10 days i think not what the hell i am so frustrated right now