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* I think being fat must be in style now not being skinny.

Everyone & there mother f*ing mother is talking about me.

The mail man telling my daughter did she stop eating?

Neighbor thinking I'm dying of cancer.

Hubby told me last night I'm 4 bones now.

Stop it stop it stop it... I want to be slim be skinny be tiny it's ok with me. I don't want to be fat. I love being size 00 it's perfect!!!

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Don't worry about what others think. If you are happy & healthy that's all that matters. I would love to be your size. What did you start at & how tall are you? You look great!

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I've always said that if you are talking about me then you must not have anyone else to talk about.

* I think being fat must be in style now not being skinny.

Everyone & there mother f*ing mother is talking about me.

The mail man telling my daughter did she stop eating?

Neighbor thinking I'm dying of cancer.

Hubby told me last night I'm 4 bones now.

Stop it stop it stop it... I want to be slim be skinny be tiny it's ok with me. I don't want to be fat. I love being size 00 it's perfect!!!

Tiny look at this as a positive. These people are showing they are concerned and care about you. It is when people don't take notice that you mean nothing to them and those are the ones I wouldn't even want in my life or even associate with.

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Haters gonna hate. Success, whether in weight loss, finances, or in our jobs, is going to cause jealousy and envy in people who are unhappy with themselves. I hate that you're feeling gawked at and whispered about. Just keep your head up and pray blessings for those who are speaking maliciously about you.

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Don't worry about what others think. If you are happy & healthy that's all that matters. I would love to be your size. What did you start at & how tall are you? You look great!

I started at 211 i'm 5 foot tall

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Haters gonna hate. Success, whether in weight loss, finances, or in our jobs, is going to cause jealousy and envy in people who are unhappy with themselves. I hate that you're feeling gawked at and whispered about. Just keep your head up and pray blessings for those who are speaking maliciously about you.

Thanks it's ashamed ppl don't have nothing nice to say

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I've always said that if you are talking about me then you must not have anyone else to talk about.

Tiny look at this as a positive. These people are showing they are concerned and care about you. It is when people don't take notice that you mean nothing to them and those are the ones I wouldn't even want in my life or even associate with.

ppl should had advice me being fat wasn't good instead of now talking about me

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* I think being fat must be in style now not being skinny.

Everyone & there mother f*ing mother is talking about me.

The mail man telling my daughter did she stop eating?

Neighbor thinking I'm dying of cancer.

Hubby told me last night I'm 4 bones now.

Stop it stop it stop it... I want to be slim be skinny be tiny it's ok with me. I don't want to be fat. I love being size 00 it's perfect!!!

So sorry you have to deal with this. It's amazing how we get the cold shoulder and people talk bad cause we were fat now that we chose to do something about ourselves and we lose the weight to get healthier and we still get talked about. How I've always seen it....if people have to talk about someone else then 1. They are unhappy with themselves or 2. They just need to get a damn life amd worry about themselves.

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