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So I am about 4 weeks out from surgery and I am a complete basket case! I cry about everything. I have heard other people talk about this... When did you feel that you "turned the corner" and felt normal again?

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So I am about 4 weeks out from surgery and I am a complete basket case! I cry about everything. I have heard other people talk about this... When did you feel that you "turned the corner" and felt normal again?

This is normal. It should end by 8 weeks if I remember correctly. If not you should see your Dr.

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This is normal. It should end by 8 weeks if I remember correctly. If not you should see your Dr.

I double checked and it should end by 6-8 weeks. It is called the hibernation syndrome if you want to Google it! Good luck. I'm 7 weeks and feel soooo much better!

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hmmm not looking forward to this stage at all.

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I double checked and it should end by 6-8 weeks. It is called the hibernation syndrome if you want to Google it! Good luck. I'm 7 weeks and feel soooo much better!

Thanks I will google it.

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hmmm not looking forward to this stage at all.

Seriously, before surgery I would describe myself as level headed. Now. Somebody looks at me funny and I am crying.

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Lol totally normal! Not really funny but I was a mess! I remember watching chopped and i was balling because the guy got chopped for leaving out his mystery ingredient. At that very moment I realized this is not me!!!!

I cried about everything and anything. food, not being to drink Water, someone looked at me weird, a commercial, my daughter telling me no.

It lasted a while for me but when I told dr he said normal from released hormones.

Surgery date 7/25/12

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Oh no! I was freaken happy when I couldn't eat. Maybe I'm crazy but I was like I'm getting skinny in no time. Never hungry that ended lmbo I now eat like a normal person not a fat ass. Hate when ppl stare at me now they stare thinking she didn't eat all her food. I'm full hello!?

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I went thru this emotional roller coaster crap too.... Im a crier anyway... but ten times worse for about 2 months. My husband and boys just didnt know what to make of it. It is a crazy time for sure!!

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I cried a lot too (LOL) I would make my mother come over and sit in my room with me or I made my daughter cuddle (She's 15 LOL) but about week 7/8 I was okay and asking everyone to leave me alone LOL

It will pass it's the crazy hormones :)

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I double checked and it should end by 6-8 weeks. It is called the hibernation syndrome if you want to Google it! Good luck. I'm 7 weeks and feel soooo much better!

Omg I googled this and this totally explained how I'm feeling right now!! The fatigue and just want to fall into the bed or couch ASAP when done with anything!! I even cried watching the bachelorette last night and that's totally not me!!! Why didn't my dr tell me about this? I've been wondering if I had lost my mind and also was stuck in a land of fatigue. Thanks..I'm so glad you shared.

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Omg I googled this and this totally explained how I'm feeling right now!! The fatigue and just want to fall into the bed or couch ASAP when done with anything!! I even cried watching the bachelorette last night and that's totally not me!!! Why didn't my dr tell me about this? I've been wondering if I had lost my mind and also was stuck in a land of fatigue. Thanks..I'm so glad you shared.

No problem. Glad I could help. I Google a lot. I saw someone on here post some symptoms they were having so I googled it! ;) I love to learn about this surgery.

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Lol totally normal! Not really funny but I was a mess! I remember watching chopped and i was balling because the guy got chopped for leaving out his mystery ingredient. At that very moment I realized this is not me!!!!

I cried about everything and anything. Food' date=' not being to drink Water, someone looked at me weird, a commercial, my daughter telling me no.

It lasted a while for me but when I told dr he said normal from released hormones.

Surgery date 7/25/12[/quote']

I did that after my hysterectomy. Wonder if it will feel the same.

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No problem. Glad I could help. I Google a lot. I saw someone on here post some symptoms they were having so I googled it! ;) I love to learn about this surgery.

I'm glad to learn more also. I think I will pull up good ole google next time hubby give me that look like I've suddenly lost my mind :)

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I've been stressing out about this. I think this scares me more than any of the physical stuff. Any advice on ideas to cope?

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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