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Jdubsvn    3

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My surgery is next Friday 4/12 and I'm really nervous!! I start the 3 day liquid diet on Tuesday. My last weigh in was Monday and I began a feeding frenzy, eating everything I won't want to eat again. I feel like crap after eating this food which just tells me even more that I've made the right decision to get the RNY. Is anybody else just as nervous as I am??

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Crkrjax76    76

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I don't have a surgery date yet, but I'm already nervous. My Dr. has started me out with a 2 week liquid diet. I already had my "food funeral". Eating whatever I wanted and eating all the places I wanted to. I also felt horrible afterwards, but I honestly don't regret doing it. It was like a last "hurrah" before it's all over!

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Jdubsvn    3

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That's exactly how I feel!! I'm every emotion there is, more excited for a healthier more active life but still so nervous!! I am thankful I only have to do a 3 day liquid diet though!! When did you start your liquid diet?

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Crkrjax76    76

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I'm on day 3. I will have to follow a strict calorie diet for 3 months, then do another 2 week liquid prior to surgery. I'm looking for surgery in mid-late June.

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BBdoodle    483

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My surgery was on a Monday and Sunday I had to eat light so on Saturday I had my "last supper" and basically before surgery I did eat what ever I wanted. On that Saturday before surgery I ordered a huge bacon cheese burger, I could only eat half -- I guess my guilty feelings took over. So dont feel bad we all do it and I to was nervous, scared, happy and looking forward to a new me :)

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Lou:)    110

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My surgery is Monday and oak having a breakdown.I have the lap band and I have felt bulimic for two years until they took the Fluid out of my band a month ago. I've been crying because I finally can eat without throwing up and I'm worried I will be back where I started... sick, fat, unable to eat and still fat. I have eaten everything in site the last two weeks and am now having liquids.< /p>

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juliz1972    51

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My surgery is Monday and oak having a breakdown.I have the lap band and I have felt bulimic for two years until they took the Fluid out of my band a month ago. I've been crying because I finally can eat without throwing up and I'm worried I will be back where I started... sick' date=' fat, unable to eat and still fat. I have eaten everything in site the last two weeks and am now having liquids.[/quote']

One day at a time girly. That's all you can do. Praying for you. ????

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Jdubsvn    3

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My surgery is Monday and oak having a breakdown.I have the lap band and I have felt bulimic for two years until they took the Fluid out of my band a month ago. I've been crying because I finally can eat without throwing up and I'm worried I will be back where I started... sick' date=' fat, unable to eat and still fat. I have eaten everything in site the last two weeks and am now having liquids.[/quote']

A friend of mine just had his lapband removed and had the rny done. He is happier already. I think you will be just as surprised at how great you will feel. Stay positive!!

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Lou:)    110

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A friend of mine just had his lapband removed and had the rny done. He is happier already. I think you will be just as surprised at how great you will feel. Stay positive!!

Thanks! I am hoping so!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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