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I was a little sad because I saw my "actual weight" Today at my appointment Today. I immediately beat myself up and asked myself How Did I allow myself to Get this out of control)-:...it Kinda brought my spirits down. Like the cliche goes," WHAT U DON'T KNOW WON'T HURT YOU", well I know now and I Feel sad )-:

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But you're on the right path now so let the past go and only look at your future my friend. YOU are starting a journey to health. Always remember it's a journey not a marathon or race. YOU can do this for YOU because you are soooo worth it :)

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But you're on the right path now so let the past go and only look at your future my friend. YOU are starting a journey to health. Always remember it's a journey not a marathon or race. YOU can do this for YOU because you are soooo worth it :)

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But you're on the right path now so let the past go and only look at your future my friend. YOU are starting a journey to health. Always remember it's a journey not a marathon or race. YOU can do this for YOU because you are soooo worth it :)

Awwww.... Thank u Losingitformr2011! Your gonna make me cry!!(-: Your message is soooooo encouraging and I believe it!

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what losing it isaid

This is the first day of the rest of your life.

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what losing it isaid

This is the first day of the rest of your life.

You know Vicki, that is So True. I never looked at it that Way!

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Chosen.. I totally know how you are feeling.. But everyone is right.. The numbers will go down and your level of happiness will go up now that you have committed to this life change! Good luck girl ;)

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Chosen.. I totally know how you are feeling.. But everyone is right.. The numbers will go down and your level of happiness will go up now that you have committed to this life change! Good luck girl ;)

Thank u jnygrl! I Can't Wait!!!(-:

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I was 211 felt like a fat cow. Knocking things down at the shopping stores. After surgery I came out less then one month more more in the 200's I was 197 then from there I kept going down. Look I'm 139 almost 5 months post up & size 7 I feel great. Nothing is impossible. Take me for example & many other ladies here bigger then I was or same weight just about. We all did it.

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I was 211 felt like a fat cow. Knocking things down at the shopping stores. After surgery I came out less then one month more more in the 200's I was 197 then from there I kept going down. Look I'm 139 almost 5 months post up & size 7 I feel great. Nothing is impossible. Take me for example & many other ladies here bigger then I was or same weight just about. We all did it.

Congrats mamiof3kids and Thanks for the encouragement! It means a lot!!

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Your headed in the right direction what you weight today does not matter. It's what your going to weight and what you do in the future that matters.

WLS is not for everyone and the ones that do succeed under stand that this is a life long commitment a life long Journy.

We are always happy to add one more person to the losers team. You can do this no regrets no worries don't worry what friends or family will say. This is about you and what you are doing for your loved ones.

Good luck on your Journy

Surgery Anniversary 7/30/12

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Your headed in the right direction what you weight today does not matter. It's what your going to weight and what you do in the future that matters.

WLS is not for everyone and the ones that do succeed under stand that this is a life long commitment a life long Journy.

We are always happy to add one more person to the losers team. You can do this no regrets no worries don't worry what friends or family will say. This is about you and what you are doing for your loved ones.

Good luck on your Journy

Surgery Anniversary 7/30/12

Thank you PaulB for your encouragement! I am so ready for this life changing event. I Want to be healthy for me and my kids. I Want to live and be happy with me and what I see and right now I am not. Soon it will Get Better and I will look back and Say, what was I worried about! I Did it and I love me and what I see. (-: Again, Thank you!!

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Congrats mamiof3kids and Thanks for the encouragement! It means a lot!!

Your welcome :)

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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