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Hi everyone! My name is Kelly and I came across this forum just today and I've been on it reading all the posts for hours. I actually feel like I know some of you already! Everyone seems so supportive and helpful and funny and it seems like a great little family and I hope to go through all of this with you. I'm 30 years old and a mom to Carter (5) and Casey (4) and I've been married to my husband Dan for 6 years but we've been together since I was 15. I've always yo-yo dieted but it's been down 20, up 30 and I've reached my all time high. I weigh more than I did when I was pregnant with my boys and let me tell you, I was NOT a cute little pregnant chick. I am addicted to food, I've tried every diet and pill that's out there, and I've decided this is what I need to do. A friend of mine had gastric bypass 5 years ago and is so happy and looks amazing. I want that to be me. I have a beautiful, healthy family, a great home, great relationships, solid career. All that's missing is love for myself. I deserve to be happy. I had my seminar a few weeks ago and have my first appointment on August 3rd. I can't wait. It's nice to "meet" all of you and can't wait to share our journeys!

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Hi Kelly!!!! I'm starting my journey too! I just met with my primary care doctor last month to document my current weight and track my food intake. I have a consultation with my surgeon on 25 July. Can't wait to get this weight off! I've battled with weight my whole life. My heaviest was 300 pounds and at 5'2", I was as wide as I am tall! I lost 100 pounds on my own and then got stuck at 200 pounds! I went to my weight loss center and found out that my BMI was too low!!! That was a year ago. Now at 45 almost 46, my hormones are all out of whack and I have gained 40 back which puts my BMI at just above what it needs to be for surgery. Now, for the first time in my life I step on the scale and hope I DON'T lose any weight!!! It's quite liberating to not be so focused on diet and exercise right now! Looking forward to talking more soon! Christi

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Welcome Kelly, and good luck to all of you who are just starting!!! Your lives are about to change in many big ways. Some will make you happy, and there will be others that make you want to scream. But it all works itself out in the end.

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Welcome Kelly if you need to know anything just ask. There are people on here that have been though it or like my self 23 days from surgery. will help you get thought it Just Ask and good luck on your Journy to better health.

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Welcome ! I am right with you with your weight as I'm sure a lot are. I was 250 when I went in the hospital for my second and now I am 255. My ankles and knees are giving me problems and I am finding it really hard to walk down the stairs without being in pain. I am so ready for my surgery!

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Hi everyone! My name is Kelly and I came across this forum just today and I've been on it reading all the posts for hours. I actually feel like I know some of you already! Everyone seems so supportive and helpful and funny and it seems like a great little family and I hope to go through all of this with you. I'm 30 years old and a mom to Carter (5) and Casey (4) and I've been married to my husband Dan for 6 years but we've been together since I was 15. I've always yo-yo dieted but it's been down 20' date=' up 30 and I've reached my all time high. I weigh more than I did when I was pregnant with my boys and let me tell you, I was NOT a cute little pregnant chick. I am addicted to food, I've tried every diet and pill that's out there, and I've decided this is what I need to do. A friend of mine had gastric bypass 5 years ago and is so happy and looks amazing. I want that to be me. I have a beautiful, healthy family, a great home, great relationships, solid career. All that's missing is love for myself. I deserve to be happy. I had my seminar a few weeks ago and have my first appointment on August 3rd. I can't wait. It's nice to "meet" all of you and can't wait to share our journeys![/quote']

Welcome to the group! Everyone here it's very supportive and if you have any questions just ask there are people her at different stages in there journey and I'm sure someone will have an answer for you. Good luck with starting your new life.

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Welcome! Good luck on ur journey! It's so nice to be able to get on here n read things that ur going thru too. It's very supporting ;)

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Welcome to the group. You will be a success & be showing off your sexy body. I'm glad to have you here & the test of the newbie. Hoping I didn't miss Anyone Lolz gonna search

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Welcome! Sounds like you are on your way and headed toward the post WLS roller coaster. The time before surgery will fly by so hang on!

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Welcome to the board Kelly. We certainly have a wonderful group of people here. I look forward to learning more about you and sharing in your WLS journey :)

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Just heard from the Dr and they moved my first appointment to next Friday the 27th, a week early. I can't wait!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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