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TinyMamiOf3kids    1,280

TinyMamiOf3kids
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What size did they change to? I think my husband will miss them more than me. 40G.

My hubby will be mad if the butt is gone. He said he can deal with smaller boobs.

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TinyMamiOf3kids    1,280

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I know right! People are so much friendlier...I still have 65 more lbs to go. I've always wondered how life would be if I wasn't fat...I knew that skinny had its privileges! Lol! Well I'm still overweight just not morbidly overweight anymore....but most definitely on the road to non fat status! Lol

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Yes panda I can picture it. Thousand of dollars done the road the almost perfect body.

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juditha    48

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Its not just other people who treat us different. WE do too! ( sadly im speaking from past experience .. That weight that i lost came back to visit bringing some of its friends along too:-(....)

When we have lost weight we treat ourselves better. Take more care- usuallly- of our appearance. We are happier and show it and therefore other people notice it. We smile more therefore more people smile back. In short the confidence that we gain after weight loss shows ! We feel more attractive therefore we are......

I have my op on wednesday ... And can't wait for that feeling.... At the moment i feel as confident as a bull in a china shop

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TinyMamiOf3kids    1,280

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Its not just other people who treat us different. WE do too! ( sadly im speaking from past experience .. That weight that i lost came back to visit bringing some of its friends along too:-(....)

When we have lost weight we treat ourselves better. Take more care- usuallly- of our appearance. We are happier and show it and therefore other people notice it. We smile more therefore more people smile back. In short the confidence that we gain after weight loss shows ! We feel more attractive therefore we are......

I have my op on wednesday ... And can't wait for that feeling.... At the moment i feel as confident as a bull in a china shop

This is true I'm going threw it now and I'm not skinny/slim yet.

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Tammy483    162

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I feel the same. I'm not even halfway done yet, but it's happening. I've got men hitting on me all the time. And these are people ive known all my life.I keep thinking in my head, you didn't turn to even look my way at my heaviest, like I'm going to turn to you as I lose.

Love my fiancé, he's been rock solid in my life. He's smart, caring and hot and I ain't ditching him.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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      1. summerseeker

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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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