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Just remember, everyone, when you get one of those urges to "live on the edge", it may come back and haunt you at any time!!! lol

DeLarla made me do it!!

Sorry to be so incommunicado - life with BF has been a dream come true, and we've been traveling every weekend and running around during the week once I get home from work, and it seems I barely have time to turn around these days.

My eating has not been so mindful these past few weeks, and I had not been in the habit of eating three full meals a day any longer, particularly not mostly in restaurants where there is always bread and potatos offered/included, so I have crept out of my 10lb "safety zone" as of Monday - +14.5 pounds from my low of 200.5. ;)

I know that once we stop eating out and I get back into my walking routine all will return to normal, but being tired anyway, I confess I'm feeling a little down. Nothing like before, of course. But I need to start asking those hard questions again before I choose what I eat, and why...

Lisa G., it all makes sense now, knowing that you're just now seeing the bra pics... lol On a regular day, no, I wouldn't post the saggy boob collage. But you never know what I might do on one of those "wild hair" days!!

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Wild hair days....whats that like I wonder. Maybe once I lose more weight like you and Delarla I'll start riding motor bikes and posting boob pics! Hey, I might even combine the two. I can see it now...Delarla can I borrow your bike and Donali your bra for the pics?

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Donali-

I was hoping that your quietness was a result of having wonderful times with your new live in lovaaaa :-).

Sorry to hear that you're struggling. My heart goes out to you and I think of you often.

One of the things I've learned since banding (and I'm sure you already know this but I just wanted to give you a friendly reminder) is that there is sometimes GOOD stress in our lives- any change can create stress and trigger old habits- even good stuff. Try not to be too hard on yourself and keep tabs on that black and white thinking!!!!!!

I just hope you know that you've got a bunch of people here rooting for you and will love you no matter what!

Megan

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Thanks, guys... **sniff** You're the best. ;)

As TallGuy so aptly reminds us, this site is ADDICTIVE... :knockedou

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Donali is beautiful, brilliant, skinny, a home builder, in love, and now an underwear model! Is there no stopping this girl? You go, girl!

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Donali,

Congratulations on the pants victory.!!! I go away for a day or two and all hell breaks loose on the this site. And they called me the wild partying Las Vegas girl.....

Babs in TX

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LOL Babs

Donali, where at in Germany did your BF live? Our foriegn exchange student is from Germany. He'll be here in the states right after Christmas.

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Donali, where at in Germany did your BF live?

He was in Mannheim.

I like this new format, for the most part, but I'm missing a bizillion threads, I'm afraid... It's like the new posts are being automatically marked read before I get to them, and I miss the "Get New Posts" buttons that linked to recent posts whether they'd been read or not...

Learning curves - I hate 'em... :P

I had to do a search to find this one. ;)

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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