Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Taser! For the public!



Recommended Posts

Having sat in on a trial of a police office who had tasered a 59 year old woman I have a different perspective. I sat through 4 days of testimony about the taser, the training involved, how the police taser each other so they know the effects, etc. etc. etc. They were trying to prove that the tasers are safe and that the police get plenty of training so they will do no harm.

This case was difficult. I thought the police officer used excessive force. The 59 year old woman suffered from chronic fatigue and fibrolmalgia. They made her sound like she was crazy. Since I have both of these illnesses I knew what she was saying could be true. You can be well one minute and down the next.

Anyway it was a 6 person jury. The first count was 3 guilty, 3 not. The 3 not quickly attacked the 3 that thought he had used too much force. Iwas on the guilty side. Anyway, one went to the not guilty side because she wanted to get out of there. The other juror and I fought strong for an entire day. It was going to be a hung jury. I finally talked to the other juror and we agreed to vote with the not guilty. My only condition was I wanted my say after the vote.

The next day I read in the paper where this same police officer had been charged with a group of police officers in excessive force using a taser that resulted in death. The man was a mental patient.

I live with that guilt everyday. I should never have compromised. Tasers are bad and in Texas they are lethal. They are used more and more here by police that exert excessive force. The not guilty jurors couldn't believe that a police officer could use bad judgment. It is not one of my fondest moments.

I say NO to tasers in the hands of the public and police.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

On a more serious side, I've been tasered. (As part of a law enforcement explorer program I was part of back in highschool). Many years ago, but the memory of the pain is crystal clear. My father has also been tasered. He's an assistant warden, and whenever the prison personnel go through their annual whatever it is they go through, they get tasered, pepper sprayed, etc. Theory behind it is that it's supposed to better enable them to work through it because they'll know what's going on, should an inmate ever get ahold of the "weapons" (yes, they're classified as weapons) and strike back.

It's not fun. And unlike TV, you don't just get up & brush it off afterwards. It took me 2 or 3 days to no longer feel the effects of it. And if anyone ever wrongfully tasered me, as much as I'm anti-lawsuit-at-the-jump-of-a-gun, you can betcherass my first call would be to an attorney.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well, I carry a gun and pepper spray with me at all times. I have since I was 16. I know that there are many women that are scared of guns and do not carry them. So, maybe a taser would be good for them.

On a very important note : There are many people that get worked up and are "trigger happy" as I call them. This is not good. I believe that people need to be trained to use defense weapons. Whether it is a gun, taser, knife, pepper spray, or whatever. It is very important to know when, where and how to use it. It could save your life but it could also end your life if the weapon gets into your attackers hands.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I know it should be against my liberal beliefs, but I am fully supportive of people carrying guns. Heck, I took a gun safety course as a PE elective in college. My only feeling is that every person that owns a gun and everyone who will be around that gun should be required to take a safety course and follow certain requirements, such as keeping the gun in a locked gun cabinet or have a trigger lock on it and keep it unloaded and separate from bullets.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Oooh, Jack, like a shock band instead of a shock collar...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I know it should be against my liberal beliefs, but I am fully supportive of people carrying guns. Heck, I took a gun safety course as a PE elective in college. My only feeling is that every person that owns a gun and everyone who will be around that gun should be required to take a safety course and follow certain requirements, such as keeping the gun in a locked gun cabinet or have a trigger lock on it and keep it unloaded and separate from bullets.

Ok Laurend,

I have a couple of questions for you. If you have a gun and have been trained to use it, why on earth would you keep it in a locked gun cabinet or have a trigger lock on it and keep the bullets separate, especially if it's a hand gun? If you own the gun for protection of yourself, your family, and property, how on earth do you think you could unlock the gun cabinet, run to another place and find the bullets, load the gun, then have time to shot an intruder before you were either killed or severly injured by the intruder? If small children are in the home, I believe the guns should be kept out of their reach with the safety on, but for someone who lives with only adults, I believe they should have instant access to the gun in case they actually need to use it. I also believe children should be taught gun safety, especially when guns are in the home.

The school shootings in the past few years have really brought this subject to the forefront, but I believe a large part of the problem is lack of disipline by parents, plus lack of teaching on the part of the parents. The teens who killed so many at Columbine had the weapons in one of their bedroomsand in the basement of the house! I'm sorry, but I believe a parent should be more aware of their childrens activities than that. I grew up in a house with guns and I knew not to touch them, or I would get my butt beat severely. I knew where every gun was, but I was disiplined well enough by my parents to know the consequences of that action and how severe it would be. Today's kids don't get that.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

If you have a gun and have been trained to use it, why on earth would you keep it in a locked gun cabinet or have a trigger lock on it and keep the bullets separate, especially if it's a hand gun?
Well, I think it is common sense. I don't want someone getting their hands on it. What if someone breaks into your house when you aren't there? If you don't have it locked up or with a trigger guard on it, you have just put a dangerous weapon onto the streets. Another reason is what if your kids have a friend over? Even the best behaved and disciplined child occasionally breaks the rules. What if their friend finds it and starts playing with it? I know I don't want to be responsible for a child accidentally killing himself or his friend.

I honestly don't understand people who aren't willing to take reasonable action to prevent an accidental shooting. Either keep your guns locked up or keep a trigger lock on it if it is kept loaded.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I totally understand what you are trying to say, but I still say if I owned a gun, which I don't by the way, I would want it ready to go if I need it. I don't have small children in my house, so it's not something I have to worry about. However, I grew up with guns in the house. My brother and I knew where they were, but our friends sure didn't. We both knew better than to touch them or even let anyone know that we knew where they were. I understand that there are accidental shootings everyday, but they aren't by people who are trained in gun safety and have their guns put away to where children can not get them. I guess my point is that if you have a gun for protection, if it's locked up all the time, then it's worth anything for keeping you safe. I know you disagree, but that's how I would have it if I owned a gun. I don't expect everyone else to do what I would do. Neil Entwhistle(sp) went into his in-laws house and took the gun he killed his wife and baby with out of a locked gun case and returned it after the shootings. In other words, guns don't kill people, people do!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well, if his in-laws had kept the combination or key to the safe to themselves, he wouldn't have been able to get the gun. The whole point of having a gun safe is that no one but the owners can get into it. If you go around telling everyone what the combination is or where the key is, it defeats the purpose.

If people are really interested in protecting their families, they should invest in an alarm system. Unless you went out and bought a cheap-ass gun, you could have afforded at least a basic alarm system. Even if it is just one of those magnetic things that go off when you move the other half, it would probably be enough to scare off most burglars.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Now that I have to agree with you on! None of the guns in our house were ever intended for protection, they were hunting rifles for my dad and brother. I heard on the news that he was the only other person besides his FIL that had a key to the cabinet.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

NORTH BONNEVILLE, Washington - A man who said he used a stun gun on his wife’s 79-year-old grandmother was arrested for investigation of domestic assault.

Aaron de Bruyn, 26, was cited with fourth-degree domestic violence assault Wednesday and released from the Skamania County jail Thursday, Police Chief Calvin Owens said. The grandmother was not injured.

De Bruyn said he was arguing with Rosemary Garlock, who accused him of abusing his 7-month-old son when he swatted the boy’s diapered bottom to stop him from grabbing electrical wires. When she refused to leave, he said he shocked her on her right shoulder as she sat on the living room couch.

“She yelped, because getting Tased hurts,” de Bruyn told The Columbian newspaper.

De Bruyn said he had the 50,000-volt Taser X26 energy weapon to protect against burglars. He said he called authorities, saying he had a relative in his house who would not leave.

De Bruyn’s stun gun was confiscated.

“If I had to do it over again, I wouldn’t,” he said.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

A lady in my neighborhood is going back & forth with a guy that she accidentally tasered in the nards.

She claims he was running up behind her on a jogging path at night and it scared her. He claims he was jogging, and was going to pass her. She got all worked up at just the prospect of something happening, turned around, and fried Jim & the twins. The guy is now claiming ED. Who knows.

omg Wheetsin-you crack me up! thanks for the laughs!

~courtney

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×