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Ok I'm 3 mths out and I had huge mood swings in the beginning. It got a better. Now all the sudden is getting bad again. I feel sorry for those that surround me. Lol

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I read about this. I just had to do a peace offering to my hubby because I've been a bit "extra" post-op. How long did your mood swings last? I'm thinking of trying to figure out some stress-free activities to do to calm myself down. This is the pits.

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Hormones fluctuate wildly post op. I also had to stop hormonal birth control because I went from my typical moody self to a raging lunatic. Seriously...coffee is important and all but no good reason to flip out on your poor husband in the morning. I was out of control.

It takes a while to adjust and get back to normal. I'm not sure where you're at diet wise but once I was about 6-9 months out I added in more carbs and that helped, too. I don't know about you but I'm not friendly when I low carb it. I get mean if I don't get a good variety of foods.

Just keep an eye out for depression and reach out for help if you need it, because it does happen post op more often than you'd think. Other than that...just make nice as often as possible and get ready to apologize! I took a lot of time outs my first several months because I just felt very emotional and moodier than usual.

Best of luck!

~Cheri

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Lol I got after my poor kids yesterday cause they were watching tv. Lol I had to apologize. I feel sorry for everyone around me these last days. I have my college sister living with me for the summer and she keeps telling my mom I'm going bipolar on her.

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I don't like the struggle but I totally relate. Just take it easy and try to explain that you're just a lil crazy right now and it'll get better. My kids are so funny - my daughter (5) knows I love my coffee and ever since the "infamous coffee freakout" (which, incidentally was the first time I ever blew up at my husband in our nine years of marriage!) my daughter asks me if I "need a coffee break" every time we pass a Starbucks sign.

So, long story short, if you joke about it with them afterward and explain/apologize as necessary, it doesn't really phase them too much.

Good luck!

~Cheri

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Oh yah my kids know and my wonderfull husband likes to joke about it. He says its ok hun we totally understand the dr must of nicked your brain. Lol. So does any one know when it stopz.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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