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MystiGal    143

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There are so many confrontational people on this website!! I am on another website like this and have never seen so many people arguing with eachother. I am all about having different opinions and discussing them, but my goodness! People on here get so personal and really go at eachother. Just not understanding why exactly. I know I have had maybe one or two disagreements with people on here, but it was never personal and I still enjoy reading what they have to say. I am by no means an angel, I will say that - but this is on a whole different level! We should be here to support eachother, not put eachother down.

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Ms.AntiBand    2,984

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This should be under rants and raves.... :D But,

You get a a huge amt of people together, which this site is huge, you are bound to get a lot of members who are opinionated and pig headed. Some can discuss with social etiquette and some can't. It just happens.

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MystiGal    143

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I was wondering which forum this should go under!! lol Sorry :-/ But, you are absolutely right. Just get tired of reading it over and over on here.

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No game    14,437

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This should be under rants and raves.... :D But' date='

You get a a huge amt of people together, which this site is huge, you are bound to get a lot of members who are opinionated and pig headed. Some can discuss with social etiquette and some can't. It just happens.[/quote']

Yes...

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soocalchic    1,087

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There are so many confrontational people on this website!! I am on another website like this and have never seen so many people arguing with eachother. I am all about having different opinions and discussing them' date=' but my goodness! People on here get so personal and really go at eachother. Just not understanding why exactly. I know I have had maybe one or two disagreements with people on here, but it was never personal and I still enjoy reading what they have to say. I am by no means an angel, I will say that - but this is on a whole different level! We should be here to support eachother, not put eachother down.[/quote']

Fat people who can't eat are angry people lmao take it with a grain of salt. I don't post as much as I used to due to the same thing..

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newat52    1,613

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Fat people who can't eat are angry people lmao take it with a grain of salt. I don't post as much as I used to due to the same thing..

Can I take that grain of salt with a shot of tequila? :P :P :P

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soocalchic    1,087

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Can I take that grain of salt with a shot of tequila? :P :P :P

I'm down for some shots of Patron oh wait don't talk about Booz angry people will judge you can't drink alcohol and lose weight

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No game    14,437

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I know I have had maybe one or two disagreements with people on here' date=' but it was never personal and I still enjoy reading what they have to say. I am by no means an angel, I will say that - but this is on a whole different level! We should be here to support eachother, not put eachother down.[/quote']

Awww... I just read this! Does that mean you still enjoy reading the things that I say???? O,O

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MystiGal    143

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lol @ soocalchic

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MystiGal    143

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Awww... I just read this! Does that mean you still enjoy reading the things that I say???? O,O

Laura-ven... of course I do! The majority of people on here make me laugh, smile and give out great information. It's just a few that I have read on here that seem like they are looking to argue. I do not see you as one of those people! By the way - I have never been a spitter, always a swallower! LMAO!!! ;)

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No game    14,437

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Laura-ven... of course I do! The majority of people on here make me laugh' date=' smile and give out great information. It's just a few that I have read on here that seem like they are looking to argue. I do not see you as one of those people! By the way - I have never been a spitter, always a swallower! LMAO!!! ;)[/quote']

Hehehe... That's it! always swallow :o:D

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newat52    1,613

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I'm down for some shots of Patron oh wait don't talk about Booz angry people will judge you can't drink alcohol and lose weight

Ah....Patron...how I miss thee...especially a shot of it floating so beautifully and sweetly on top of a perfectly frozen Mararita! Sigh.....

OK, I'm ready for judgement day! :ph34r: :ph34r: :ph34r:

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newat52    1,613

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I'd rather fight drunk! So let's throw caution to to wind and drink!

Party's at my house! :)

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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