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Was anyone else very irritable after surgey ???

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Oh yes! Most of us went through the very same thing shortly after surgery. My kids asked me if I realized I was being unreasonably grouchy:)

Don't worry it will pass. Just hang in there and try not to inflict your misery on loved ones like I did :)

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Nobody is doing anything right for me right now ... I try to hang out in my room butbi go to get Jello or a damn sf popsicle and my husband has the nerve to ask what are u eating NOW . After they all had hamburgers on the gril grrrrrr

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Time to be thankful that you are on your way to a healthier new you......

Right now you have a bunch of hormones free floating in your brain and it's just for a short time.....

It will pass really soon and yes, it isn't fun either.

It could be time for a walk to get out of the house if possible.....

Just think, your body is doing a ton of adjusting and very soon your clothes will be way toooooooo big for you. Do I see a smile on your face? Hope so........ Let us know how your doing..... :)

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Thanks and yes that does make me smile . One of my kids asked me yesterday how much I had lost and I said and my daughters boyfriend said no way ... ticked me off

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I was bordering on euphoric after surgery... but at certain times during my preop... I was soooo hangry that chubby babies and fluffy kittens annoyed me. I guess it hits us at different times!

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Nobody is doing anything right for me right now ... I try to hang out in my room butbi go to get Jello or a damn sf popsicle and my husband has the nerve to ask what are u eating NOW . After they all had hamburgers on the gril grrrrrr

That comment would have totally bugged me too and is something that would have come out of the mouth of my ex. Actually now that I think of it... it did come out of his mouth even when I was back to 110 lbs after having kids;)

Go figure! But since yours is still your hubby I'd probably let him know that you know what you're doing:)

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Nobody is doing anything right for me right now ... I try to hang out in my room butbi go to get Jello or a damn sf popsicle and my husband has the nerve to ask what are u eating NOW . After they all had hamburgers on the gril grrrrrr

Tell your husband to shut his trap

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Oh believe me I sure did

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My guy gets mad saying "thats all you are gonna eat", after all the saying how hungry I am 4 bites and its a wrap lol

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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