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hello im 23 and need some support

lalabi99

By lalabi99, in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums

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SKgirl27    41

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Hey I'm Nikki and I'm 24. Looking for support. I'm getting sleeved on march 1st. If anyone wants to be support buddies I'd love one as I am scared and nervous. Thanks :)

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gelen's_change    157

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Hey I'm Nikki and I'm 24. Looking for support. I'm getting sleeved on march 1st. If anyone wants to be support buddies I'd love one as I am scared and nervous. Thanks <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' />

U not alone. My is on march 5 th and im scared and nervous. Cant stop thinking about and on top of it all the weeks are going by so slow. What makes u scared?

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SKgirl27    41

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U not alone. My is on march 5 th and im scared and nervous. Cant stop thinking about and on top of it all the weeks are going by so slow. What makes u scared?

Mostly just that it is Permanent and I can't change it if things don't go well. That's what scares me.. That and dying but I hope that won't happen!

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gelen's_change    157

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U not alone. My is on march 5 th and im scared and nervous. Cant stop thinking about and on top of it all the weeks are going by so slow. What makes u scared?

Mostly just that it is Permanent and I can't change it if things don't go well. That's what scares me.. That and dying but I hope that won't happen!

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gelen's_change    157

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U not alone. My is on march 5 th and im scared and nervous. Cant stop thinking about and on top of it all the weeks are going by so slow. What makes u scared?

Mostly just that it is Permanent and I can't change it if things don't go well. That's what scares me.. That and dying but I hope that won't happen!

I understand i fear the leaks a lot but my surgeon hasn't had one yet n he's done many so i trust him n in god that that wont happen. Im mostly scared cuz of my kids. I don't want them to be without their mom.

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Mini_Me_23    20

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Mostly just that it is Permanent and I can't change it if things don't go well. That's what scares me.. That and dying but I hope that won't happen!

I'm also very scared that I'll die, it's constantly on my mind, but I keep telling myself if I don't do the surgery, I'll eventually get co morbidities and eventually die. So I'm willing to take my chances and hope for the best, because I want to live a long and healthy life.

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Yummy    34

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the current link is www.facebook.com/ExpensiveTaste89

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Dquarles    32

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My name is Laura i would like to know if anyone that is still in the process of getting or has the surgery can text me for support this is more before i dont know how to make this my photo

How are you since the posting have you had the surgery.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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