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I'm 38yrs old, mother of 2. I am single and work a full time job. I have struggled with weight since I was very young, and have had "foodie" issues. I love to cook and eat good foods, healthy and other...My struggle with emotional eating/depression and low self esteem has led me down alot of unhealthy paths. I finally made the choice to do something permanent to help me become a healthier person overall and be a better Mom to my kids. I decided to have VSG. I contacted the office of Dr. Clifton Thomas on a referral from my mother (my lifelong enabler/sabatour). They were immediately helpful and talked me through my wants/needs. I had my VSG surgery Dec. 17, 2012. I'm currently on week 6 and starting solid foods. I'm having a hard time moving away from the starchy carbs I so dearly crave/love. I call myself a carb-a-holic because I can manage to avoid craving sugar/soda/chips but not my pasta/rice/bread!!! So...here I am for some support and helpful friendships. Hello, I'm MsLissa. Nice to meet you! :D

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Hi, My name is Gina and welcome aboard. My surgery was September 24th and I am down a total of 45 lbs from heavyest. I use to be a sweet eater but since surgery I am now more of a salt/bread craver. Very strange but I am not complaining. This is a great way to connect and to work thru any problems (stalls, worries, questions) that you may have. Congrats on your surgery and on chosing to get healthy. As a single mom of two also I understand the desire to be healthy for our children. Best of luck to you.

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thanks so much! I'm new to the whole experience, although Dr. Thomas' office offers a partner system w/successful patients to help with troubles/questions, this seems to be a great place to start for me. I'm down 15lbs. in just 6wks and have started walking daily!! It's a long road, but I'm on it and ready for the long haul!

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I'm 38yrs old, mother of 2. I am single and work a full time job. I have struggled with weight since I was very young, and have had "foodie" issues. I love to cook and eat good foods, healthy and other...My struggle with emotional eating/depression and low self esteem has led me down alot of unhealthy paths. I finally made the choice to do something permanent to help me become a healthier person overall and be a better Mom to my kids. I decided to have VSG. I contacted the office of Dr. Clifton Thomas on a referral from my mother (my lifelong enabler/sabatour). They were immediately helpful and talked me through my wants/needs. I had my VSG surgery Dec. 17, 2012. I'm currently on week 6 and starting solid foods. I'm having a hard time moving away from the starchy carbs I so dearly crave/love. I call myself a carb-a-holic because I can manage to avoid craving sugar/soda/chips but not my pasta/rice/bread!!! So...here I am for some support and helpful friendships. Hello, I'm MsLissa. Nice to meet you! :D

Once i started on 'real' food....week 6, I had very little bread, I had to get in Protein first and there wasn't a lot of room left. I didn't say Pasta was off limits, but I limited the amount I ate. I'd make home made spaghetti meat sauce and whole wheat Pasta, I'd put just a little bit, I mean a little bit.....and then add sauce on top. I like round steak cooked in 98% FF cream of mushroom Soup (as gravy). I make brown rice or steamed potatoes and will eat about an 8th of a cup with a little 'gravy' on it. Yum!

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thanks. it's been difficult to not crave the rice/pasta. So far I haven't really had any "bread" just the side starch to every entree seems to be either rice or pasta! I have already switched my family onto whole wheat pastas and now ground turkey! Most often I can only manage 1/4 cup/serving of anything at a time, and that helps. I'm learning to recognize when I'm full, not OVER full. I'm getting better at choosing the Protein first...I'm just starting on solid veggies/fruits. I miss my fruits and raw veggies!!! Almond butter has been good too...kills my sweet craves!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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