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When I had lapband I was 18, young and dumb. Since then I have been through nursing school and have a heathy fear of surgery. With every hour that passes I get more and more anxious to the point of tears tonight in the shower. To make matters worse the preop bowel prep has me shitting my brains out to the point that I can't sleep. I started it about 15 hours ago but it still wont stop. I'm worried I'm still going to be having this issue when I get put under and be shitten up a storm on the OR table. Good thing I dont work for these people - I wouldn't be able to come back.

In short, my ass hurts, my stomach hurts and I feel like I could cry at the drop of a hat.

Obviously, I'm a nurse, I know a lot of the practical facts.... anyone have any.. words of wisdom . . . Something for me to ponder over as I pass these next 9 hours?

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I too am in the medical field so have cancelled this surgery 3 times. We know too much so are more anxious . Ask your anesthesiologist for drugs!!! Lol. Let me know how you do and maybe I won't cancel for a 4th time.

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Wow what a way with painting pictures with words. Lol All I have to say is when I took the milk I was crapping all night and the day of I had a stomach ache and I started freaking out in the pre op room and I was yelling at my husband screaming let out I need to get out I change my mind. So I got up grabbed my Iv and went into the bathroom and bam let it out. Came out of the bathroom and was like ok let's get this done. So i guess the bm was making me anxious or maybe I poohed my fear out. Lol who knows FYI your post surprised the hell out of me cause everything I've read of yours was so professional. Lol

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Wow what a way with painting pictures with words. Lol All I have to say is when I took the milk I was crapping all night and the day of I had a stomach ache and I started freaking out in the pre op room and I was yelling at my husband screaming let out I need to get out I change my mind. So I got up grabbed my Iv and went into the bathroom and bam let it out. Came out of the bathroom and was like ok let's get this done. So i guess the bm was making me anxious or maybe I poohed my fear out. Lol who knows FYI your post surprised the hell out of me cause everything I've read of yours was so professional. Lol

Bahaha sorry for the being graphic, sometimes I just say it like it is. . . Lol I am usually dry and to the point but dammit if I'm not scared right now.

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I too am in the medical field so have cancelled this surgery 3 times. We know too much so are more anxious . Ask your anesthesiologist for drugs!!! Lol. Let me know how you do and maybe I won't cancel for a 4th time.

Know waaaaayyyy too much. I was in the shower counting the ways something could go wrong.

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When I had lapband I was 18' date=' young and dumb. Since then I have been through nursing school and have a heathy fear of surgery. With every hour that passes I get more and more anxious to the point of tears tonight in the shower. To make matters worse the preop bowel prep has me shitting my brains out to the point that I can't sleep. I started it about 15 hours ago but it still wont stop. I'm worried I'm still going to be having this issue when I get put under and be shitten up a storm on the OR table. Good thing I dont work for these people - I wouldn't be able to come back.

In short, my ass hurts, my stomach hurts and I feel like I could cry at the drop of a hat.

Obviously, I'm a nurse, I know a lot of the practical facts.... anyone have any.. words of wisdom . . . Something for me to ponder over as I pass these next 9 hours?[/quote']

Look on the bright side, you probably will have lost 10 pounds before you even get to surgery.

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Look on the bright side' date=' you probably will have lost 10 pounds before you even get to surgery.[/quote']

20, but 5 of those are probably dehydration pounds from today that will be back with me when I get fluids IV

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When I had lapband I was 18' date=' young and dumb. Since then I have been through nursing school and have a heathy fear of surgery. With every hour that passes I get more and more anxious to the point of tears tonight in the shower. To make matters worse the preop bowel prep has me shitting my brains out to the point that I can't sleep. I started it about 15 hours ago but it still wont stop. I'm worried I'm still going to be having this issue when I get put under and be shitten up a storm on the OR table. Good thing I dont work for these people - I wouldn't be able to come back.

In short, my ass hurts, my stomach hurts and I feel like I could cry at the drop of a hat.

Obviously, I'm a nurse, I know a lot of the practical facts.... anyone have any.. words of wisdom . . . Something for me to ponder over as I pass these next 9 hours?[/quote']

How did it go ???

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I will jump on here when I am allowed to have my phone back and let you know!

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Awwww honey. So sorry you are so scared. Based on the time, I think you are probably post op. Please write when you feel up to it and let us know how you're doing. :)

Petra

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Take your time! One step at a time! Praying for you on having a nice recovery!

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Hoping it went well for you! Please keep up posted and although I'm reading this now that you're probably post surgery, still sending up a prayer! :)

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Hey yeah, I am on day two post op and feeling alright. Just got my tegaderm bandages off me and the pump out so all I have left is the drain.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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