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I am having surgery tomorrow and I am creaking out and very emotional ...I am worried about everything from the pain to dying....any words of comfort from someone who has already had the surgery?

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I would imagine you have done lots of research and know that you have a great doctor and a great hospital location. Take a deep breath .... you can do this.

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First of all, take a deep breath. You are going to be fine. Any time you have a surgical procedure it's a little scary plus you are starting on a new journey to health and that's scary also. I can tell you my experience and hope it helps... I had little to no pain--I never took any of the pain medication or the nausea medication. They will get you moving the first day and that is very important. You will be a little sore but walk, walk, walk. The walking helps to work out the stiffness and also helps get rid of the IV fluids from surgery. Your mouth will be dry from the anesthesia so take a good lip balm. The chance of dying is very very slim. Anethesia is very safe these days and you will be monitered very closly. You will be very sleepy the first day so ask family to let you rest and come the next day for visits. Take loose fitting clothes. Take you some books or things to do because morning TV will drive you nuts. Let the nurses know if you need anything at all, they are there to help. Most important the more you move the better you will feel.

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Hit enter before I finished! I had very little pain at all and ZERO gas issues. I was up walking about 4 hours after the surgery and continued to walk about every two hours. That was a huge help. They will probably give you a morphine pump - I stopped using mine the first day because I really didn't need it. After about 5 days I was feeling pretty much like my old self. Good luck to you - you're going to love the sleeve.

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I agree with Decembersleever, take a deep breath. Do something to distract yourself; play computer games, read a book. Keep chatting online with us all evening. In two days time you will wonder what you were so worried about and laugh at yourself :) If you are a religious person, pray and believe that God will get you through this safely.

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I am having surgery tomorrow and I am creaking out and very emotional ...I am worried about everything from the pain to dying....any words of comfort from someone who has already had the surgery?

You will be fine... I was worried too. The first week was hard but definitely better and better! Good luck!!

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Well I did it...I was a nervous wreck but I am done the sugery and can't wait to see the results in the next few months ....thx agian to all those that helped me!

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Thank you! I'm at my 3rd day since the surgery and feel so much better. I'm getting excited now to get on with my new healthy life style.

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Thank you! I'm at my 3rd day since the surgery and feel so much better. I'm getting excited now to get on with my new healthy life style.

How are you doing now beachmommy?

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Sorry it took so long for Me to reply. I am doing great now and I have lost 21 lbs since Jan. 11! It's been tough getting use to chewing properly...I am transtioning from soft foods to solids and that has been hard...any suggestions?

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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