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Hello - I joined this forum today becasue I am looking for feedback on your pre and post-op experiences with the sleeve in Minnesota.

Specifically -

How long have you struggled with your weight? What type of things have you done to lose weight?

When you were doing research for WLS, how did you decide what doctor/clinic to go with?

What has your overall experience been with WLS?

If you had to do it over again, would you?

Do you have BC/BS of MN and did you get them to cover the costs?

A little about me - I've been pudgy most of my life. By the time I was in junior high I was pretty big for my age, although also tall. I joined the swim team and got down to 165 lbs, with a lot of muscle. This stayed off until sophmore year at college when I switched school and ahd some other issues which helped me lead a more couch potato lifestyle. I'm now married and have 2 kids and need to be healthy for them. Not to mention I turned 41 today and at age 42 my father died of a heart attack.

Since I was 20 I've been between 200 - 315 lbs, depending on motivation, fad diets, etc. I've tried weight watchers, Jenny Craig, and all the usual programs, I've did Phen/Fen which worked great for me except for the pesky recall thing due to heart issues, I've done medifast - which again was great except after 4 months of a liquid diet I was sick of salad and shakes only - I wanted some fruit and a slice of bread now and then.

I've been researching WLS for a number of years and the people I know who had bypasses got really sick. Some ended up being fine and keeping the weight off but one is almost as heavy now as she used to be and the other never really got her hair back...and I love my hair.< /p>

The people I know who had the lap-band didn't see much weight loss and said they had lots of heartburn.

I know diet and excerise are key to any program but right now I want to see fast results to motivate me. 1 lb a week is just so depressing when you think about losing 125lbs.

So anyway, if you've gotten this far and are from Minnesota (or not!) and have some advice, I'd appreciate open and honest advice.

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Are you close to Winona? I'm on the other side of the river. I'm getting sleeved 10/30 through Marshfield Clinic-Dr. Pitchford. I attend support group meetings there the first thursday of each month. I've done most of the things you've listed, WW, Jenny Craig, HCG...all with some initial success, then ultimately regain, plus a few more. I turned 41 earlier this week. I'll let you know in a few weeks how it went, but so far...I'm super excited to start this new journey.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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