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Hi, everyone!

It's been a long wait (delayed once because of a cold) but I'm being banded tomorrow. (Yes, that means today is the dreaded "drink a horse trough full of water" and try -- just try! -- to do anything else for more than 20 minutes. : ) I gave up symphony tickets to friends thinking (rightly, it seems) that I'd better stay home today....

Seriously, I am looking forward to the help the band will/should give me, and not a little nervous: did I make the right choice? will I succeed? will I blow yet another attempt to lose weight?

Cheers to all,

carol

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Carol, congratulations. I'm sure you will hear from all of us that we have spent lifetimes trying to be "normal" size and failed. If I thought I could have done it any other way (less going with a bypass) I wouldn't have done even this. I am not one of the biggest or fastest losers, but I am happy with the dedision. I am steadily losing a little at a time and that is so much better than seeing the scales go higher and higher over and over again. I think you will find that you have made a good decision and like most of us here will be thrilled with your results.

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Dont let yourself get too nervous!!! The anticipation is worse than the actual surgery. I will not lie, I was sore and tired afterwards.....but I felt like all that worrying was for nothing, lol. You will be fine. I wish you a speedy recovery!

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Thank you both so much! It's funny how all the worries start now, not months ago when I was researching it all. : )

But I look at the online scales of weight loss and figure: YES, I have made the right choice. Thanks for the reassurance. : )

cheers,

carol

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It will be a HUGE learning experience, so embrace it with open arms. Use this tool to really learn how got where you are in the first place and you will do great. Lord knows my eyes are wide open now. I have no regrets. Your surgery will go just great and it will be behind you before you know it. I had mine on a Wed and went back to work on Monday feeling good. Little gassy from the surgery, but that went away completely after a few days.:clap2:

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Just arrived home after surgery yesterday. Looking again at the liquid diet requirements (and having already had the experience of being FULL after 3 oz. of Jello and crystal light), I'm wondering if I've made a big mistake. But I'll chalk it up to new territory jitters. You all seem so positive about it -- that's reassuring.

Well, off to rest for a minute. It's so nice and quiet home!

cheerio,

carol

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

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