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After looking at all the best times to have the surgery done I decided to try to get sleeved dec 26th. Thats right so my 14 day Optifast diet starts before that. I hope I dont loose it between the holiday parties and cookie baking. But I am dedicated and know its worth it :) Any advice though? I really dont want to just skip out on the holidays this year! But I dont want to be overly irritated either

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Maybe treat yourself with a few holiday foods you love before you start your Optifast diet. Then you won't feel like you cheated yourself out of your holiday foods. Have a pre-holiday dinner with your immediate family? Maybe you could add a little peppermint or pick the chocolate flavor when you're going to be around treats or have some sugar free hard candy on hand for a treat when you have to be around goodies?

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I stuck to it but it was hard! I was sleeved January 4th. Luckily Hubby is the Holiday Chef.

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Thank you! Ive decided that i will be pushing my holiday party to the week before i start the Optifast. I am so very excited though and know its only for this year!

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I was very tempted to push my date after the holidays , but I really didn't want any more excuses! I got it done on the 1st of October

To be honest, before surgery, I ate everything I wanted and did a quick two day diet before surgery! I came out perfectly fine and my only problem is the craving to eat everything.

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My surgery day is Nov14th, so I will be a wk out on Thanksgiving. not exactly sure how I am going to manage this, but I know that I have wanted this for so long, that Im sure all is going to be well. for those who have had surgery near the holidays and what did u do to still feel like u werent left out food wise?

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My surgery day is Nov14th' date=' so I will be a wk out on Thanksgiving. not exactly sure how I am going to manage this, but I know that I have wanted this for so long, that Im sure all is going to be well. for those who have had surgery near the holidays and what did u do to still feel like u werent left out food wise?[/quote']

My surgery is the same day!! This is my first visit to this forum, so I am not sure if I am posting properly. I would love a "surgery buddy."

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Did your health insurance require you to get in a diet before the surgery?

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My surgery is the same day!! This is my first visit to this forum' date=' so I am not sure if I am posting properly. I would love a "surgery buddy."[/quote']

Well if you want a buddy you've found 2 because I'm getting sleeved the same day. Im actually happy I'm going in before the holidays. I could only imagine pigging out and having to undo my pants to make room lol. Now ill just have some broth and be happy

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My surgery day is Nov14th' date=' so I will be a wk out on Thanksgiving. not exactly sure how I am going to manage this, but I know that I have wanted this for so long, that Im sure all is going to be well. for those who have had surgery near the holidays and what did u do to still feel like u werent left out food wise?[/quote']

I'm getting mine Nov 14th too...so excited!!

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I posted before I read the rest of the thread...well I guess we will all be sleeve buddies through the holidays and figure out what works for us...

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I posted before I read the rest of the thread...well I guess we will all be sleeve buddies through the holidays and figure out what works for us...

How are you feeling about our upcoming date! :) do you have anything left to do for the drs. I have pre op testing on Monday!!

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I'm a week ahead of you but the holidays were definitely thought of. Like you, I said no more excuses. I am not cooking that day, but plan on bringing some stock with me and making some cream of Turkey Soup at my sisters- I'll participate at dinner and get my Protein in. I don't want to "miss" out, so I'm planning ahead. One of the greatest gadgets I have is an immersion blender, stick it in a tall glass or use a pot, it is small enough not to be a big deal to bring.

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I'm a week ahead of you but the holidays were definitely thought of. Like you' date=' I said no more excuses. I am not cooking that day, but plan on bringing some stock with me and making some cream of Turkey Soup at my sisters- I'll participate at dinner and get my Protein in. I don't want to "miss" out, so I'm planning ahead. One of the greatest gadgets I have is an immersion blender, stick it in a tall glass or use a pot, it is small enough not to be a big deal to bring.[/quote']

Ill be making some stock or the boyfriend will hehe and i have immersion blender as well love it! Hoping I dont feel too left out and if I do ill take some pain meds and knock myself out hehe jk

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I am getting sleeved Dec 12... I am a little upset I won't be able to share in the Christmas goodies but it will be well worth it!

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