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I wonder if sex will get better as I get smaller. Sometimes its a chore because I have to hold up my fat legs or be on my knees and feel my stomach flop up and down... has anyone experienced a better sex life?! (This question is not meant to offend anyone, I am happily married!)

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Oh yeah baby, less friction (besides where it counts) and less interference and more room to "maneuver"

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I don't know about for women, but for guys it definitely gets better. "Bigger" penis, more stamina, increased sex drive.

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100 pounds later and I'm more flexible and hubby says there's so much more room to work with ha

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I worry about my breasts shrinking away to nothing, like deflated ballons (ACK!!)...and loose skin "flapping"! LOL Oh well, my hubby assures me he will love and be attracted to me at any size :)

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There is a post on here titled "sex, oh my God, sex." Look it up!!!

And yes, 80 lbs down makes a LOT of difference for us. We just recently have been able to try with me on top (first time ever and we've been together 11 years). B) Looking forward to the next 80 lbs!!!

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Definately better!! We've been able to do things we haven't done since we first got married! My wife loves it!! ;)

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Woo hoo! One more thing to look forward to! Good luck Chelle, you'll get your turn!

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I'm single, too. Not stopping me. There's a fine line between celibacy and sanity.

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