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My surgery is in about 2 weeks, and I start my nutrition class tomorrow. I'm starting to get the nervous fat girl problems! I'm worried I'll never be able to eat again or enjoy food anymore! is this true? and the holidays are coming up what do we do about holidays? This is another reason I wanted the surgery because I feel my life revolves around food lol Ugggh! I need to calm down.. Did anyone regret the surgery? or their decision to have the surgery? :huh:

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Its funny you mentioned the Holidays... I just wrote about that today on my blog that I keep during this whole process. Take a look... maybe it will make you feel better....

http://pumpkinmeli29.tumblr.com/

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Hi, I am getting nervous as well, my surgery is in a week . I sometimes think to myself and say I can do it again with no surgery. But that only crosses my mind for a few minutes. If I did 1 diet I did 1 too many and regained all I lost what makes me think I can do it again by dieting.. so on with the journey. Tonight I have a split sleep study. I started the last phase of pre-op diet which is the liquid diet N so far so good. No more self doubting...let us get it done...

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Its funny you mentioned the Holidays... I just wrote about that today on my blog that I keep during this whole process. Take a look... maybe it will make you feel better....

http://pumpkinmeli29.tumblr.com/

Thank you for Sharing. I am tired of the yoyo diet and weight. I have closets full I might fit in that clothes if and when I lose the weight. I know now that I will be able to enjoy those clothes on this journey (but just for a bit) and be able to give them away because they are too big and I am extremely excited knowing in the near future I can go shopping in any department store and shop and buy smaller fashion styles of clothes....... Holidays here I come with a new attitude, a new body, a new healthier mind and I will be styling. Lol...thank you again for sharing...

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Its funny you mentioned the Holidays... I just wrote about that today on my blog that I keep during this whole process. Take a look... maybe it will make you feel better....

http://pumpkinmeli29.tumblr.com/

Thank you so much for that post! and that is funny how you were just thinking about that! lol

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Hi, I am getting nervous as well, my surgery is in a week . I sometimes think to myself and say I can do it again with no surgery. But that only crosses my mind for a few minutes. If I did 1 diet I did 1 too many and regained all I lost what makes me think I can do it again by dieting.. so on with the journey. Tonight I have a split sleep study. I started the last phase of pre-op diet which is the liquid diet N so far so good. No more self doubting...let us get it done...

Wow chica keep me updated! I get mine in 19 well now 18 days lol Prayer for all of us to stay strong! ^_^

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Wow chica keep me updated! I get mine in 19 well now 18 days lol Prayer for all of us to stay strong! ^_^

Hi I am probably going to change surgery dates I need clearance from cardiologist ... I think they scheduled me for the consultation next Tuesday. Surgeon said wait till Tuesday to reschedule the surgery.. So at this time i am leaving it in Gods hands...

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