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Compliment followed buy like a insult. Why is it that people see you loosing weight and they can't just leave it at that like oh wow u have lost some weight. Lately at work which a lot of people don't know. I get you losing weight but don't forget to watch you mouth later. Or be careful u don't get pregnant and ruin what you doing. Or the one that irks me you look SO much better now!! Someone actually at work asked me how much I have lost and like my weight I am not ashamed and I told her she's like WOW you TWO of me!!! Great feeling eh!!!

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Exactly. My favorite this far is, "oh... So you're my size now" with a sad look. Like they can't believe they're that big... Uh yeah, you're a size 14... Me too lol

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backhanded compliments suck. Just remember that jealousy is what fuels them.

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Can't u just leave it ur looking good!!! Oh well let them hate cause I am sure as hell not done!!!

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Google passive-aggressiveness and learn how to recognize it an deal with it...and rudeness is sometimes best acknowledged.

A conversation with a neighbor:

"You look so good now! You don't look anything like you used to."

neighbor.

me: "Thank you, your Husband said the same thing to me just before he invited me to lunch last week".

and I walked away...

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Google passive-aggressiveness and learn how to recognize it an deal with it...and rudeness is sometimes best acknowledged.

A conversation with a neighbor:

"You look so good now! You don't look anything like you used to."

neighbor.

me: "Thank you' date=' your Husband said the same thing to me just before he invited me to lunch last week".

and I walked away...[/quote']

Lol... That's what I would've said long before sleeve. I'm sarcastic to the bone lol

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Lmao, Pookey! That's frickin hilarious.

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