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I need help guys today is my birthday and I am 10 days post op. Every year we went out to my favorite restaurant and a movie, but now I need a new tradition. This is my second birthday without my mom and it's already an emotional day I just want to do something special. Any suggestions?

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Go to a salon with a couple of girl friends, get a massage, mani, pedi, etc. You'll feel like a million bucks and really enjoy a good movie! Happy birthday!

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Well, HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Why not still go to the movies? Just take away the restaurant part. And what a great birthday gift you've already given yourself. Maybe you and the girls in the family can go get manicures and pedicures? Have a mini makeover day? No matter what, just think about how awesome your "New Year" is going to be. :)

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First thing....HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!! I am with Nancy, go spoil yourself with a massage, mani/pedi maybe a nice shopping trip. Celebrate the new you!!!!

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spa day... !!!! massage, mani pedi, hair , makeup.... enjoy!!!

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I am for a facial and a pedicure ..if you haven't had a facial..its wonderful...and a pedicure is a miracle for my craggy feet...if you feel self conscious about it...don't ...it feels good!!!!

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Happy birthday!!! It's mine too!! I was sleeved on may 1st. I live in ny so I'm going to the city to the empire state building. I figure no food no worry. Enjoy your day!!!

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Happy birthday!!! It's mine too!! I was sleeved on may 1st. I live in ny so I'm going to the city to the empire state building. I figure no food no worry. Enjoy your day!!!

Happy Birthday to both! My birthday is coming up soon and my family tradition is drinking and having their favorite dish made for them. But this year all I asked for was money or spa packages. Ooffa511 what part of New York are you from cause I live in manhattan.

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First, Happy Birthday!!! I agree with the ladies--do something for YOU-mani, pedi, facial sounds perfect. This journey you are on should be all about YOU taking care of YOU!!!

I lost my mother in October and understand how difficult it can be doing those things without her.

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I agree with the others; do something for YOU for this birthday. A pedicure is a wonderful indulgence and will make you feel SO much better. I'm sorry about your mother. I know how hard that one is, especially when you're early post-op. You're in the same spot I was last year, having a birthday while still on liquids. Just know that your mother is an angel in heaven who is watching over you and she IS proud of you, even more so because you're making such positive changes in your life!

Happy Birthday to you! :)

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Happy birthday. Do something that is all you. My birthday is coming up soon and I told my husband I want to go bike riding along the lake front. Do they have carriage rides near by, or how about a boat ride. Depends where your at.

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do you have some place local to go for a walk. Zoo, park, Botanical Garden...

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Happy Birthday to both! My birthday is coming up soon and my family tradition is drinking and having their favorite dish made for them. But this year all I asked for was money or spa packages. Ooffa511 what part of New York are you from cause I live in manhattan.

I live in long island

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