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I am a young 60 sommething who is planning to have the surgery in late January. I am currently at 345 lbs and 5'6" tall. I am blessed in that I do have controlled hypertension and beginning arthritis of the knees but all else is well,. I definitley am going forward but I have to say I am a bit frightened of the procedure and what I will need in emotional strength to make this successful for me. I want to dance again,....any support will be great. Sunshine 69

Hello, Sunshine,

I am 67 and had my sleeve on Sept. 10. I am 5 ft. 5 inches tall and weighed 286 at the beginning. I now weigh 235. I have hypertension but it went down dramatically - not sure of the exact numbers, but my current ones are

normalish. Lipids are going towards normal too.

The arthritis in my knees has all but disappeared! I can get out of a chair easily. I can walk a distance now. Every pound I lose is great for my knees. I have seen people get knee and hip surgery and sleeve surgery is a snap compared to those. The only thing that has been a bother is Constipation - mainly because we have to eat so much Protein and also because I can't get all my exrcise in. (I am not the gym type) Drink as much Water as you can, according to your doctor's rules. Miralax and prune juice can work. Take your doctor's advice to the letter in all things. Take your Vitamins and supplements.

Everybody goes through some anxiety prior to the operation. It does change your life. If you are like me, you will no longer drool over hamburger ads on TV and will find them gross. You might see how much we viewers have been manipulated by commercials! food will no longer have its fascination for you. You will not see your refrigerator as your friend - it is your enemy and has been for years.

Don't let any relatives or friends frighten or discourage you. Everyone has at least one relative who will try to discourage them from the operation. Ignore them. They are undoubtedly fat and unconsciously do not want to lose an "eating buddy" like you have been. I finally had to tell my sister-in-law to quit bringing up the worst scenarios, that she was undercutting my confidence and making me miserable, even though I was absolutely committed to the sleeve. I told her she could not discourage my decision and that all she could do was to make me miserable. She stopped when I got serious.

The sleeve was almost painless (with hospital and doctor's medications). My doctor gave me prescriptions for stomach acidity and nausea. If you get nausea after surgery (as I do) tell the anesthesiologist before surgery and he will give you meds during the operation which will counteract nausea. Don't expect to feel great just after surgery, but in a week you will be soooo glad you got it. For us 60ish folks, we heal a bit more slowly, but four months after surgery, I feel a lot better than I did prior to surgery!

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@@sunshine69 I had surgery Sept 14, I had a hard time walking the pain in my feet would cause me dread to do anything. I'm 53 and was fed up with being out of breath and feet that would hurt. If I did a little activity I could hardly make it to the bathroom in the middle of the night my feet would hurt so bad. Doing the slightest of activities would cause me to pant out of breath like a dog who ran for miles. This past Friday I spent the entire day shopping and went for a hike out to see my horse which was about half a mile, then did several loads of laundry (up and down many flights of stairs), and really didn't notice till I went to bed that night, there was no pain, none! That alone is the biggest Christmas present..

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Oh this was great, thank you! I found things here that I have not read in hours and hours of scouring the internet.

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'm 3 days post-op doing well, I just wanted to know if it's normal that I'm thirsty I been drinking a lot of Water and crystal light which I water down ( I take small sips) also another question once in awhile I feel pressure on the right side well it's kinda feels like pressure or tightening its only lasts a few seconds. Also feels like it growls even if im not hungry ? Any advice ????

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Thank you for this! This answered a lot of my questions :) Im bouncing between bypass and VSG :)

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Awesome post!!!❤️

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Great post!! Any insight on the gassiness people talk about after surgery? I'm really nervous about that the discomfort it comes with. Thanks!

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Sring15:

I had no gas pains at all. Some people do have some, but others do not. They say that one can walk gas pains off - that is, exercise. Keep in motion. But as i said, I did not have the experience of gas pains. Chances are that you will not experience any, but ask your physician what his results generally are - do his patients experience gas pains after his surgery. And ask him to recommend a remedy for them.

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This is great, thank you!

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@@Lilee84 thank you so much for sharing!!

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thank you for this post. Going to be sure to try the antiacid trick

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

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        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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