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I wanted to thank you guys so much for your help through this journey! Having yall has been helping me get through this! <3

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Hey, I'm with ya! This is the ONLY place where I can go that people understand where I am and where I've been. I've never let a man other than my doc know my weight, but every guy on here knows! Weird, huh? It's a good feeling. I'm thankful too!!

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I wanted to thank you guys so much for your help through this journey! Having yall has been helping me get through this! <3

jewlk, thanx for simplifying everything in a nutshell. This is exactly how i feel. if i hadn't found this board, i wouldn't have had anyone to talk to about the WLS or listen to me. Sure my DH is there, and he does listen and he's there for support. He couldn't possibly know what i am feeling.(mom or daughter too)

you guys are always here for me for support, you answer questions, give info, and never talk back to me ;)

thanx all

kathy

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I agree 100%, this forum has been a tremendous help to me, in making the decision to get the surgery and helping me after as well. THANKS EVERYONE!!!!

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I too am so thankful :)

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I agree.. and many people on here are even cooler offline!!! LOL...

I appreciate you guys too... I've learned to submit to my journey and enjoy every minute of it!!!!

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Dooter, I have to agree. NO way am I telling anyone IRL what I weigh, now or after I reach goal. But, I post my weight here and on MFP every day without shame. I doubt I'll ever tell anyone what my high weight was, even after I reach goal, either!

VST has made it possible for me to make it through this journey. I definitely appreciate all the help I get here daily!!!

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Isn't this site the BEST??? This WAS and IS my support group and cheering squad 100%! I think I would have had a much harder time if I didn't have this. I am thankful for it and the people who make it up every day!

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Everyone on this site are here to improve his/her health and help others that make this wonderful journey. I am really greatful for all the support I have received here. ;) Thanks to everyone.

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I, too, would be lost without all the support I receive on this forum. I'm now 4 1/2 weeks post op & I feel as if I couldn't have made it without you guys! Thank you all so much for sharing your journeys, advice & life experiences! I just started my journey, and I'll be here forever!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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