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JustPaul and I were chatting in the Gone For Good threa after hearing a great story about someone there being hit on since their weight loss. I love these stories, so I want you to post yours here. Tell us about people REALLY noticing your loss, or sudden attention to your new found sexiness!!

Cause y'all know you are getting sexier by the day!! WOOHOO!!

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A law enforcement officer encounter.. I'll post it after the workout and bar-b-que, :huggie:

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I don't think I've been blatantly hit on but men do seem to wave and smile at me a lot now while I'm in my car.

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hahaha, nice!

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The guy who comes and does that yard work for our community regularly saw me the other day and dropped his weedwacker LOL I just stared at this guy, covered in sticky grass, staring at me with his mouth open. I always send the kids out with bottles of cold Water for him, but I haven't seen him in a while. I asked him what was wrong. He chuckled and said "Nothin Mrs. Davis, you are just shocking looking. You have lost a lot of weight, if you don't mind me saying so." It was so sweet. I took him his Water and gave him a kiss on the cheek.

The guy who works at our grocery store has hit on me, in front of Rob!! LOL I pointed to rob and said that I was taken, and he got red in the face an apologize to him, then told us he always thought we were brother an sister, not husband and wife. Not sure how I feel about that one...

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I have 4 nice things happen to me all on one day....yesterday.

I had one guy at work tell me I was melting and I looked good *WHAT*

Another guy asked me where I got my beautiful eyes from *WHAT*

Another guy told me I was looking good *WHAT*

and lastly.... a lady told me I was slimming down and looking great *WHAT*

My brain was in shock all day but dang... it made me finally feel good.

Oh.....and a few days ago, my hard ass boss told me I looked nice :faint:

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I've actually gotten several interesting emails from my last pics on our movie website.

I guess getting hit on by Trekkies is better than nuthin!

Just kiddin, love those Trekkies!

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I had an 18 year old Circle K clerk (who was mighty good looking and had all of his teeth) card me for cigarettes. When I was pleased at showing ID he said, "I am sure someone as striking as you always gets told they look young". I nearly hopped over the counter to kiss him!! But I thought I better not in case they have a shot gun back there.

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I was at Sam's Club getting gas. I had just come back from the gym & had on some nice fitting sweat pants. As I was outside standing next to the car, a guy came up to me & said - "Did you just get back from the gym?" I looked down & said - "YEP!" Then he said, looks like all that hard work is paying off! :huggie: :P I said thank you & then I stood there feeling very awkward. Just then, my 2 yr. old woke up from her car seat & called out for me. He took off as fast as he came.

I am going to have to get used to this! I have never been hit on in my life.

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I've always been a terrible flirt anyway - so I've either gotten rolling eyes or smiles depending on how they felt about a fat chick hitting on them *L*

Anyway, I lose weight in my waist first (why not my butt, I'll never understand the cruelity) so that tends to accentuate my boobs and butt...yesterday I received a "man you have a tiny waist" from a total stranger (I'm thinking he forgot the rest of the sentence..."compared to your butt!" LOL but no, he stopped at that)

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Okay, here's my bummer. I haven't looked this good in years but in many poor cultures, being overweight is a sign of wealth - having money to buy food. So I'm looking poor - go figure.

But wait until I go back to the US next month. I know I am looking good physically - just having a temporary hair crisis. Celeste

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Funny timing. I went to a computer store the other day and the cashier guy told me I was the "modern day Mona Lisa". Is that even a compliment? Mona Lisa looks like a man. :huggie:

At the same store the clerk who was helping me offered to give me his home phone number in case I had any questions about what I was buying, or just wanted to talk. I guess the big ass ring on my big ass finger was somehow overlooked. :P

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Okay, here's my bummer. I haven't looked this good in years but in many poor cultures, being overweight is a sign of wealth - having money to buy food. So I'm looking poor - go figure.

But wait until I go back to the US next month. I know I am looking good physically - just having a temporary hair crisis. Celeste

Here's to you looking like you are below the poverty level!:heh:

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The boys' school had a Nutrition evening, they're doing healthy food this term, so we went last night. I had on a lycra camisole sort of top on under a lacy wrap sweater - modest when properly arranged, but a bit chest baring I guess. But then Eliza wanted a piggy back, so I had to walk around without being able to yank up my top and piggy backing tends to make me stick my chest out. Well, that got noticed, more than once.

The parents of one of Fraser's friends are quite good friends of ours but I"m a little uncomfortable with the dad, I think he may always have had a bit of a thing about me, but he's gone overboard with the compliments and he asks me things like "so do you notice men looking at you more?". Its a bit icky, he's a really nice fellow, but just somehow a little inappopriate. But then he also could have been a bit of a dufus as a young man, he's kind of goofy and funny looking and I think he just may sort of overcompensate by being the funny, friendly guy kinda thing.

I've had loads and loads of compliments but the best ones are when people dont say anything. I saw a friend last night that I havent seen for probably seven or eight months and she's hugely obese, she was looking me up and down out of the side of her vision with a filthy look on her face, roflmao! She never said a thing, but she noticed allright!

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