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Plan ahead what you are going to eat and stick to it. Last year I allowed myself turkey, gravy, creamed spinach, and stuffing. I was only five months out so I couldn't eat much of any of it. Also no snacking/grazing in addition to your pre-decided dinner. I think the key is planning ahead.

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I agree with Rosieb. I'm only a few weeks out but I've slowly been incorporating soft foods in. I have really been watching my carbs, but I'm planning this day as a treat to myself for so far a job well done. My plan is for a little bit of dark meat, a little stuffing around noon. For dinner I'm going to have white meat and green bean cassarole. For dessert I'm having Eggface's apple pie innards, and I'm going to make my own crumb topping for a treat. appetizers I'm going to stay away from unless they're high Protein, and besides, I want to be hungry so I can enjoy a very small meal. I think planning it out is key, and a way to stay away from ALL the carbs. But I also think it's a good day to reward yourself with some of the things you have loved in the past. I then plan to make the mad dash to Walmart so I can wrestle with the other psycho shoppers the morning after.

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My hubby is going to cook our traditional Turkey Day meal. I plan on having a little bit of everything on this day. Maybe its not the ideal meal plan but I did this to have a normal life, and part of a normal life is to sit down and enjoy a holiday meal with my family. Now mind you, I'm not going to over do it, this wonderful tool will not allow me to do that, but I'm not going to restrict the things I eat that day. If I want a spoonful of candied yams, I'm going to have it, if I want a bite of pecan pie then I'm going to have it. My point is I'm not going to think about it and enjoy the day. I know my signals on when I need to stop eating and I will, but I'm not going to not have the yummies that come twice a year, I'm just not going to have so much of them.

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For me, it's still and always about volume control. I'm planning to pack a couple of the little containers I use to measure, and I don't mind using them at the table to be sure I'm not getting too much--just one bite over can sometimes cause an unpleasant response, and I sure don't want that while I'm visiting with my family.

Also, Thanksgiving can be a great source of good protein-y foods--turkey, ham, deviled eggs--so you won't really have trouble finding appropriate stuff. Eat that first, THEN allow yourself a bite of the "goodies." I've already told my husband I'm planning 2 bites of pie (1 pumpkin, 1 pecan), but I'm not going to have them together, and I'm not going to have them until I've had my Protein at a meal. I'll enjoy the tar out of it without feeling guilty. Have a great holiday!!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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