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Hello all!

I'm Meli, 33, a life long battle with weight, PCOS, Metabolic X Syndrome, Type II diabetes and so on... I think the hardest part has been 5 years of trying to conceive with no luck--- tried everything short of IVF. I have considered WLS in the past, but was not fond of re-routing intestines, it just sounds really bad--- so I was glad to learn about the VSG. My fertility doctor actually mentioned to me last Tuesday that perhaps it is time to consider surgery, needless to say that evening I was in a seminar with, Dr. Anderson, on the latest WLS. I have my appointment with the nutritionalist and pyschologist next week and if my medical records come together as planned and insurance is on board, we have a hopeful surgery date for November 2011! In the mean time I want to know the ins and outs of this surgery, what you didn't expect, what you have really appreciated, and how you cope with any thing that I may encounter early on or even further on in the process! Thank you for your time!

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Girl I' right there with you. I've stuggled with my weight my whole life! The only time I was small and felt normal was after losing 80 lbs back in High school and well I didn't do that the healthy way. I have heard that a lot of people have a much easier time getting pregnant after wls because your body is in better control of it's hormones. You are lucky you don't have to do a diet for insurance approval. I had to do six months of a supppervised diet and after jumping through ten other hoops I'm finally approved and have a date. Good luck to you I hope you don't have any problems with approval!

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Hello all!

I'm Meli, 33, a life long battle with weight, PCOS, Metabolic X Syndrome, Type II diabetes and so on... I think the hardest part has been 5 years of trying to conceive with no luck--- tried everything short of IVF. I have considered WLS in the past, but was not fond of re-routing intestines, it just sounds really bad--- so I was glad to learn about the VSG. My fertility doctor actually mentioned to me last Tuesday that perhaps it is time to consider surgery, needless to say that evening I was in a seminar with, Dr. Anderson, on the latest WLS. I have my appointment with the nutritionalist and pyschologist next week and if my medical records come together as planned and insurance is on board, we have a hopeful surgery date for November 2011! In the mean time I want to know the ins and outs of this surgery, what you didn't expect, what you have really appreciated, and how you cope with any thing that I may encounter early on or even further on in the process! Thank you for your time!

It sounds like you will not have any problems with approval. As regard to your Diabetes, read my blog(www.kemo46.blogspot.com), see how the surgery changed my life. You are on the right track.

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Today is post -surgery day #4; I would do this all over without hesitation! I have/had the same co-morbidities as you...add in hypothyroidism, arthritis in lower spine and a host of other issues.

A good WLS has a wonderful, informed staff that will be able to answer any/all of your questions both pre an post surgery and this forum and others will be a great feedback support system. I was in the hospital for 2+ days instead of overnight due to my nurse not paying attention to my doctors orders for my first round of Clear liquids. My doctors team was not comfortable releasing me until they saw how i tolerated processing Clear Liquids. For most people, the biggest side effect from surgery is usually nausea and vomiting so they want to make sure they send you home tolerating clear liquids.< /p>

Two things I didn't expect...having to really pay attention to my daytime nurse as she seemed to have a focusing/staying on task issue; my night nurse was an angel sent straight from God so it made up for it LOL. The other thing was how sore my stomach muscles were. My doctor said that a lot of his patients say it feels like they did three days of continuous sit ups and I felt that was so true! I still can't sleep on my side, but movement (getting in and out of chairs, bed) is getting easier.

Good luck!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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