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Ok, so this is some very thinly veiled photo whoring, but I have been falling by the wayside for weeks, I'd lost my motivation, and have felt just as fat as I did 60lb ago.

This morning I get up and can find literally nothing to wear for work because everytihng looks and feels wrong, in desperation i grab a top my husband convinced me in to buying (depite it feeling too tight AND having horizontal stripes, and a pencil skirt I've not had the confidence to wear yet), I go to the mirror, and for the first time in a LONG time suddenly see the me who has lost 60lb.

Don't get me wrong, I can see the horrid mummy tummy and at least 20lb to still lose, but this morning this person smiled at me from the mirror, and it made me smile back! ;)

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Congratulations! You look great - you need to wear more pencil skirts - they look very nice on you.

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You look great! Thanks for sharing your success - it helps me to stay motivated when I see it really does work. Hope you had a great day in your rockin' outfit. Sometimes hubbies do know best :-)

Lynda

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You look super cute! I even like the mommy tummy... remember that french girl in Pulp Fiction? She talked up women having a nice round tummy... it feels better to touch than a flat one! And with that sailor stripe shirt, and pencil skirt, you do look a little french! Love yourself, you look fantastic!

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Sexy!!! Rock that outfit!

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You look wonderful.

Jane x

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I think you look fantastic!

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You look super cute! I even like the mommy tummy... remember that french girl in Pulp Fiction? She talked up women having a nice round tummy... it feels better to touch than a flat one! And with that sailor stripe shirt, and pencil skirt, you do look a little french! Love yourself, you look fantastic!

Words to live by. :)

Fabienne: Pot bellies (...) on a woman, a pot belly is very sexy. The rest of you is normal. Normal face, normal legs, normal hips, normal ass, but with a big, perfectly round pot belly. If I had one, I'd wear a tee-shirt two sizes too small to accentuate it.

Butch: You think guys would find that attractive?

Fabienne: I don't give a damn what men find attractive. It's unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same.

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You look great. I <3 pencil skirts.

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The feeling of being fat is a psychological thought it will change in time to match your body

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Wow!!!!!! You look totally amazing!!!!! You do look fantastic in that outfit :D

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You look great!! yaaay for your hubby in picking out the top for you..

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Looking Good.

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It has all been said... but just in case you didn't hear.... YOU LOOK AMAZING!! Congrats to you and your pencil skirt!! x

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