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Thanks a-hole. This is what some total jerk told me at work. Here I am all happy to be 36 pounds thinner and some Jack Daniels breath monster tells me "I like chubby girls like you" I was mortified! =( makes me wanna get a bag of potato chips and gorge in frustration! Sorry I'm venting, but what a troll a$$hole!

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I'm not laughing at you, but at the situation. I would have said "well too bad, I like guys with huge penises UNLIKE you."

I hate the word chubby or tubby, they both make my skin crawl and I just want to slap the next mother I hear call their child under the age of 12 "chubby". I'm like that is NOT A NICE WORD FOR FAT so stop using it.

Skip the chips, you've lost 41% of your excess weight, and doing fabulous ! ! !

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I used to hear that when I worked at a bar. I just used against the person and made them buy more and tip me better, but it didn't change that fact that it hurts. But LOL @ Tiffany's response!! Would have been a priceless look on the guy's face!!

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AGREED =) I skipped the chips and gave the resident Golden Retriever here at work a big hug instead. Chubby is a horrible word! Thanks =)

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If he's a coworker I'd be inclined to say "I don't care what you like". That's a kind of inapropriate thing to say in a workplace.

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Yea, if it was a coworker I'd beat him up. I work for Harley-Davidson and sometimes we get that one "total jerk" but my coworkers are all awesome and supportive. Everyone here knows I had WLS. I only work with 3 women out of a staff of 50! And one of them is the owners wife =)

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Don’t get anything or anyone get on your nerve, u have a goal to achieve! stick to it and it seems u r doing great towards that goal. If I was in the same workplace as urs as a customer I would have beaten him up for u :angry: , keep it up :) sometimes we can not escape from idiots around us at work...

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Three Things:

1. What a jack ass!

2. I want a resident Golden Retriever at work- that sounds awesome!!!

3. Congratulations for handling the hurt in a way not related to food. Go you!

:)

Amanda

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People are freakin idiots.. bottomline they are freakin idiots... I was on a singles site had been for years... I got the men that felt they were doing me a favor by answering my ad.. if you're overweight OMG you got that way by sitting on our butts eating bonbons it wasn't for medical reasons, or something traumatic in our lives.. no we are gorge eaters imagine that we are all selfish insecure people with no value in life... jerks!

Don't give the loser the time of day... Tell him you'd call him a prick but thats the best part of a man something he's not and never will be... :)

Let the losers go... if someone can't take me when I'm fat they damn sure aren't going to get me when I'm thinner.. cuz if i lost a breast to cancer or a leg in an accident he'd be the first assbucket out the door.. just when i'd need him most... he's doing the world a favor :)

Ok I'm done venting :)

Much love!!!

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You need to get another big laugh and realize that you will no longer be attractive to this creep cause you are looking good and still loosing all the time. That alone is a great reason to get the sleeve... Ewww

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In another four or five months, you will be textbook perfect; he will still be an idiot.

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