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I slung leg just as much when I was fat. The big difference now is that I don't get winded, my body is more flexible, and positions are more easily achieved.

Sex is more than the physical which obviously you don't understand. Intimacy plays a large role in an active sex drive. Self-esteem comes into play as well. We, as women, are a bit sensitive to our fat rolls getting in the way during sex.

It must suck to be so close-minded about why our sex drive improves once we lose weight. It's more than getting your peepee wet with most women, and obviously you haven't experienced that to date.

Close minded? sorry.Sex is not more than physical. When u have a one night stand ( and i know you have had one) were u looking for sex or intimacy? Intimacy comes with time. Now that i have taught u the difference. My women is chunky, fat, call her what you want. She is the best. Her sex drive is the same as when i meet her when she was slim. 10 years of being wiith her..just the same as when we first meet. Im lucky, very lucky to have one like she is. I agree on some of your thoughts..but darlin your comments are a little shallow. But i do like how everyone swings on your balls here. And i really like your 12 month update, 13 month update, 14 month update...mabye u could give us a daily update from now on.

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God I pity the poor woman with you as a bf.

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Close minded? sorry.Sex is not more than physical. When u have a one night stand ( and i know you have had one) were u looking for sex or intimacy? Intimacy comes with time. Now that i have taught u the difference. My women is chunky, fat, call her what you want. She is the best. Her sex drive is the same as when i meet her when she was slim. 10 years of being wiith her..just the same as when we first meet. Im lucky, very lucky to have one like she is. I agree on some of your thoughts..but darlin your comments are a little shallow. But i do like how everyone swings on your balls here. And i really like your 12 month update, 13 month update, 14 month update...mabye u could give us a daily update from now on.

What an ass. :wink0:

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I slung leg just as much when I was fat. The big difference now is that I don't get winded, my body is more flexible, and positions are more easily achieved.

Sex is more than the physical which obviously you don't understand. Intimacy plays a large role in an active sex drive. Self-esteem comes into play as well. We, as women, are a bit sensitive to our fat rolls getting in the way during sex.

It must suck to be so close-minded about why our sex drive improves once we lose weight. It's more than getting your peepee wet with most women, and obviously you haven't experienced that to date.

LMAO @ slung leg!!!:)

Cute pic Tiff!

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Close minded? sorry.Sex is not more than physical. When u have a one night stand ( and i know you have had one) were u looking for sex or intimacy? Intimacy comes with time. Now that i have taught u the difference. My women is chunky, fat, call her what you want. She is the best. Her sex drive is the same as when i meet her when she was slim. 10 years of being wiith her..just the same as when we first meet. Im lucky, very lucky to have one like she is. I agree on some of your thoughts..but darlin your comments are a little shallow. But i do like how everyone swings on your balls here. And i really like your 12 month update, 13 month update, 14 month update...mabye u could give us a daily update from now on.

You're simply proving my points. My comments weren't shallow. They were spot on as you continue to prove with each of your posts. As for your little jabs at my posts and my updates, jealousy is like a bad cold, and I hope you get well soon.

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Well I see that sumthingwong is banned now. Good. He was bugging me. He doesn't belong on this support forum. Psycho.

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Good riddance. If we cannot post without some semi-literate misogynist cruel guy leaping in and being snide and bitchy then people will not open up and get the benefits of communing with the rest of us. I hate the idea of banning people though, but sometimes it is the best thing to do. I looked through his posts and the only time he was remotely supportive was to men, he obviously had a major problem with women.

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Close minded? sorry.Sex is not more than physical. When u have a one night stand ( and i know you have had one) were u looking for sex or intimacy? Intimacy comes with time. Now that i have taught u the difference. My women is chunky, fat, call her what you want. She is the best. Her sex drive is the same as when i meet her when she was slim. 10 years of being wiith her..just the same as when we first meet. Im lucky, very lucky to have one like she is. I agree on some of your thoughts..but darlin your comments are a little shallow. But i do like how everyone swings on your balls here. And i really like your 12 month update, 13 month update, 14 month update...mabye u could give us a daily update from now on.

So the pencil D*cked SOB has been banned? That's too bad, I really wanted to say something to him.....oh well, whoever got rid of him. Thanks! What a jerk. Did he really have a girlfriend....if so, the poor girl....did he really call her 'chunky and fat'? Yes, I believe he did. OMG, if my husband ever did that, or if I even suspected he'd thought that....how hurtful. What a mean spirited person hijacking our forum. Glad this jack ass is gone.

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Good afternoon all,

May I remind everyone of the forum rules. I would hate to have to close this thread... it's a pretty nice read.

Thank you all for your continued participation in this great forum!

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:rolleyes:I'm new to the forum, and even I knew this was the "Powder Room" for women. What was he doing here anyway? From the punctuation and spelling, I almost suspect that he was a child. Oh well, gone now, peace and quiet reigns in the powder Room once again...

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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